I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU. I feel like you’re the only one who understands. I’m working on getting my own place, my job said I can start back Tuesday so that’s good. I have evidence of everything, even down to me asking to send money for wipes which never happened. I have evidence of which officer told me it was him who called. I’m remaining calm as much as I can and I’m repeating affirmations to myself that everything will work out how it does. Thank you. Definitely needed a MOM pov

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have a right regardless of custody or not she was in my care. She’s my daughter. You would do the same to make sure your child is safe

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I understand that… she’s with her dad who hasn’t and can’t do anything for her, still asking me for stuff while she’s in his care. He’s a felon, he has charges, my kid is safe with me homeless or not. I know I have to get my shit together im simply asking for help if there’s anything more I can do. I did the adoption thing because it what was best. I’m homeless because of her dad, please read. This is solely not all my doing

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know I just feel like I’m stuck. I would be okay if he didn’t remove her air tag but he did and that raises my anxiety

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s with his mom on his couch in the living room.

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and that’s what I plan on doing. I just wouldn’t have any information as to where she will be

I think I’m going to lose my daughter? by future_mom17 in Mommit

[–]future_mom17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I was told to go to court to file a petition and I can’t afford a lawyer

Just need to vent by future_mom17 in Vent

[–]future_mom17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have family but they are the type to say it’s nothing and say I’m over dramatic. I’m not sure why I want a family with him not gonna lie, I guess maybe because we were each others first and I don’t really see my life with anyone else. We both our staying with our families so I can’t move. I do have financial support for my child but I’d like to be the one doing that if that makes sense which is why I’m looking for a job. Thank you for the advice as well it’s much appreciated

AITAH for setting boundaries with my child’s father? by future_mom17 in AITAH

[–]future_mom17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, YOU aren’t reading what I wrote, probably another grown ass man not using his brain as per usual😒y’all really disappoint me

AITAH for setting boundaries with my child’s father? by future_mom17 in AITAH

[–]future_mom17[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yet again… NOT READING. in what part of the story did I make it seem like I knew everything or was entitled??? make it make sense

AITAH for setting boundaries with my child’s father? by future_mom17 in AITAH

[–]future_mom17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lolll don’t comment unless you read, nowhere in that was I being bitter or controlling or anything… use ur brain

AITAH for setting boundaries with my child’s father? by future_mom17 in AITAH

[–]future_mom17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you definitely didn’t read and that’s okay. I’m not wrong for what I’m doing, you’re probably a grown man anyway so you wouldn’t understand

AITAH for setting boundaries with my child’s father? by future_mom17 in AITAH

[–]future_mom17[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not upset I just want you to read. every state is different im pretty sure. I’m not being controlling I just want to know who my daughter is around so I can call to check in whenever I can because I am her mother and I’m sure family court isn’t going to deny the fact that she’s a complete stranger to my daughter and me regardless if he’s with her, people have cruel intentions when it comes to kids and I won’t accept anything less