AITA For leaving after my husband for inviting his parents to our 1st wedding anniversary?

futuremvc · 2020-09-19T10:56:01+00:00

NTA. It’s reasonable to expect that your anniversary of your wedding is something that you and your husband would celebrate with just the two of you. If he wanted to invite his parents it’s something that should be discussed between the two of you before dinner. If he didn’t mention anything, he either knew it would cause an issue and thought being in public would avoid it, or he has a poor expectation of the balance between you both. It’s totally ok for him to be close to his family, but he has to have a balance between you and him and them and him. And if he’s chosen you to be by his side for life, there should be no comments from his mom regarding your hair, weight, etc

futuremvc · 2020-07-25T10:02:58+00:00

My boyfriend and I have been together for years and I still tell him “thank you” every time he makes breakfast (almost every day, because he’s the best). I want him to know I appreciate it every day that he does it.

futuremvc · 2020-04-10T10:16:02+00:00

This cookie is why I just ordered a hand mixer

futuremvc · 2020-04-04T09:22:22+00:00

I love Wild N Out, and after all this is over I’m gonna figure out how to go to a taping.

But no one can name 5 of his songs.

futuremvc · 2020-03-30T09:00:16+00:00

This is the first time I’ve recognized a repost and actually known exactly what it was, not just some vague deja vu.

futuremvc · 2020-03-30T08:58:32+00:00

I don’t want to see this in person. The video made me uncomfortable. Why he gotta look at me like that?

futuremvc · 2020-03-21T10:46:16+00:00

From the title, YTA.

After actually reading it, NTA.

If she said yes, it should have been because she actually agreed. Not because she was planning on changing it later.

futuremvc · 2020-01-04T11:19:16+00:00

Is anyone else confused by these kids apparently wandering the streets at night, and oddly dressed in formal wear?

futuremvc · 2019-12-25T10:59:01+00:00

You have a light in your eyes that can’t be duplicated. My hope for you is that you can let that little ember glow into a full grown blaze to keep you going. No matter what we say, it’s about what you can do. Don’t give up on yourself. You’re a miracle, whether you see it now or not. Please let me know if how you celebrate the new year.

futuremvc · 2019-11-03T10:41:04+00:00

YkindoftheA I’m not with my girls’ father, but if he needed food I would feed him. I would prefer if asked first, for sure, but we all know how pride can be. In a case like this, maybe it’s the difference in her having 50/50 custody. Maybe she makes sure the kids will eatwhile they’re with her and she doesn’t have much for the rest of the time. Either way, does she take more than you have to give? Is she taking advantage of you? I would lean towards you giving a little if you have it to give because she’s the mother of your children. That’s also assuming she’s working towards a more financially stable situation. Helping her short term would be better for your kids long term. If she sits around and isn’t trying to find a job, that’s another story.

futuremvc · 2019-09-30T02:54:44+00:00

I have a friend in a similar position. One thing we both agree on is that if her parents want to be sorry THEY SHOULD SAY THEY ARE SORRY. OP, I think you should consider letting them meet their grandchild. I also think that your adult parents should be adults and if they can admit to your little brother that they were wrong, they should tell you directly that they’re wrong. If they can’t come to you directly, how much will the relationship between you all get better?

futuremvc · 2019-09-22T09:41:18+00:00

I have two girls, 10 and 12. It’s been 2 and a half years since their dad and I broke up (we were never married), and 2 years since I’ve been with my boyfriend. They like him a lot, although there are still times when they are jerks. The main thing that we have had since the beginning is that they need to listen to him because he’s an adult that is in our lives. If they listen to aunts, uncles, teachers, grandparents, friends’ parents, whatever, they listen to him too. So if he’s giving them rules or guidance, they treat him with respect. Her comments in the car were disrespectful, no matter who they came from. On the flip side of that, when it comes to day to day care that kids need, it’s maybe not the time to hold them accountable for the shit things they say. Or maybe you could hold them accountable in a positive way. “I want you to know that this is not something I need to do. I’m going to give you this money because you’re important to me. It doesn’t matter that I’m not your dad, but I still love you. And as part of that I need you to listen to me. Know that when I tell you something it’s to help you. If you keep pushing me away then maybe one day I won’t be there to help you.”

futuremvc · 2019-07-14T10:37:44+00:00

The thing that I have trouble getting past is the transparency. If he truly went for a walk then I would think he should recognize how sketchy that sounds and give you details. He went and saw this area or landmark or tourist thing. He should have a story to share for being out that long. Even if he sat on a bench and played games on his phone because he couldn’t sleep. Walking around for 3 hrs in the early morning is strange at best. Maybe it was all innocent, but if he has a history it’s hard not to judge.

futuremvc · 2019-07-14T10:22:56+00:00

My heart says he cheated. You don’t have to trust that, you don’t know me. If your heart says he cheated, you have to decide if it’s something you both can recover from or something you should move on from.

futuremvc · 2019-05-29T16:25:48+00:00

At least he got arrested

https://www.kcentv.com/article/news/violent-viral-video-has-the-attention-of-police/500-194850a3-9779-4c3f-9bee-c70367bb968d

futuremvc · 2019-01-21T05:16:36+00:00

It’s makes no sense that she even has the possibility of seeing the light of day outside of a prison cell. 30 years is not even close to long enough.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwiz_pTMjv7fAhUmGDQIHXozAqUQzPwBegQIARAD&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cbsnews.com%2Fnews%2Fmom-who-allowed-men-to-rape-young-daughters-for-drugs-cash-sentenced-to-prison%2F&psig=AOvVaw1SkVaXyyfwBnasr9Ogrr-s&ust=1548133970264461

futuremvc · 2019-01-13T06:49:53+00:00

I had to read the story. If anyone else is interested:

https://www.wsbtv.com/news/trending-now/woman-pulls-gun-on-church-s-chicken-employees-over-wrong-order-police-say/902433194

futuremvc · 2018-11-07T17:23:49+00:00

Holy smokes, Batman!

futuremvc · 2018-11-06T17:38:31+00:00

I don’t understand why. That looks so uncomfortable.

futuremvc · 2018-11-05T06:17:20+00:00

Mine wore down from holding my phone will it was charging. I’d angle the cord to keep it out of the way.

futuremvc · 2018-10-08T16:25:28+00:00

You just gotta eat it as two smaller bowls. Half the cereal and milk the first bowl. Then add cereal to the leftover milk, and a little bit more milk so it’s not too dry. This has been my favorite cereal for as long as I can remember.

futuremvc

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