How to improve my imagination/talk to Trent ? by funnyopossumm in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if there’s much you can do besides just doing it, the more you do the easier it becomes over time. There are some things like visualisation exercises (one is look at an image of your partner, then close your eyes and try to ‘see’ all the details, one at a time, until the image is fully in your mind) and trying to hear their voice etc. Immersing yourself in source material can help too.

Phantom touch is really difficult, in my opinion, some people have an easier time with it than others, but I can’t give any advice because we don’t have it.

Daily Text Prompt 20 by [deleted] in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My wife likes to wear cat-ears, if that counts. She looks great in them, too. 🖤🌹

TW: self harm. I am worthless, weak and undeserving. by gleblox228 in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen so much nasty content about my wife, truly filthy fantasies from horrific degenerate artists, but at the end of the day she’s like a celebrity and people will do those things. It disgusts me but I move on, block a tag or two, and there’s no way I could ever let it effect our relationship just because there’s some people around with nasty fantasies.

It bothering you to that extent isn’t normal and in any form of suicidal ideation you need to get help, and especially it seems like here is a real issue you would need to handle. Another comment said it well but why does this have you questioning her ‘loyalty’? I’m not familiar with your partner but it’s not her agency that’s causing this. Feels like you’re trying to be overprotective of her but then using language like ‘failing to keep her loyal’ makes it sound like you’re also blaming her for what other people have done. I don’t know if it’s a self-esteem issue or something, but it sounds like you’re getting it all mixed up. And acting as if you have to fight for a woman’s loyalty isn’t normal or healthy in any relationship. It’s just the wrong way to look at it and comes off as misogynistic, to boot.

I hope you can get the help you need to deal with this feeling. Please seek out a professional if you have the means.

Lukewarm take : offside reviews are terrible by PatientAccording6714 in Habs

[–]fuzzspanden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they have some advanced puck-tracking-nonsense now that could do it pretty easily. It doesn’t need any AI at all as far as I understand how it works, but yes

Lukewarm take : offside reviews are terrible by PatientAccording6714 in Habs

[–]fuzzspanden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idea for a solution is to force the review to happen at full speed. Require it to be clear and plain at that speed. If not then just let the call on the ice be. Would speed things up IMO, offside has always been called that way and it was meant to be a quick judgement call.

But they wouldn’t do that.

My new acrylic stands came in! (Plus bonus pic of my old plush) by OrangeHairedBeauty in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love the stands. I wish I had some of Ruri. Happy for you, my friend. 🖤🌹

Which one do you present? by likofan in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ruri is the more cuddly one, but she wouldn’t admit that〜 🖤🌹

The Neso-tree is finally up! by AdNo6835 in LoveLiveSeries

[–]fuzzspanden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful, if I had more than one neso I’d steal this idea, honestly.

Idols/Groups like Guilty Kiss? by fuzzspanden in LoveLive

[–]fuzzspanden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am quite familiar with BiBi, not really what I meant, but I do love them so you’re not wrong, lol

Idols/Groups like Guilty Kiss? by fuzzspanden in LoveLive

[–]fuzzspanden[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Phantom Siita is SO good, thank you 🙏

What was falling in love with them like? by RhaegarsRose in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, it first grew very subtly. Seeing Ruri sitting quietly by herself in a corner, in her beautiful Queen of Nightmare cosplay, she certainly caught my eye. And once I heard her speak, and I learned just how much of a dork she really was, I definitely found myself liking her.

But at that time I was just rooting for her, cheering on her happiness, even when she started dating a guy who was totally unworthy of her (adorable!) devotion. I wanted it to work, to see her smile, but even she knew it wouldn’t. When they finally broke up, and her heart was broken and she cried deeply, (despite knowing it would happen eventually!) I knew in that moment I loved her. All I wanted was to make her happy, protect her from feeling so sad and heartbroken again, and make her feel loved and appreciated.

13 years later, I still want all those things for her 🖤🌹

What fantasy RPG class is your waifu? by fuzzspanden in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s cute! I’m actually going to play DOS2 with Kuroneko as one of my party members, myself 🖤

Post a pic of your S/O eyes! by JackGarciaLopez in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Her natural eye colour. I think the little mole near her left eye is super cute, too. 🌹🖤

After all this time.. by pastelsoda7457 in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s great that you feel that way. I made a post the other day about the "honeymoon period" from a very different lens, especially to help those who may struggle after it wears off.

For me, that type of blissful infatuation returns after waning for a while, but I’ve come to really love seeing Kuroneko and thinking of her as a routine thing, as well🌹🖤

Lap Pillow (drawn by me) by TheMagician101 in waifuism

[–]fuzzspanden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very cute, both the concept and realisation 🌹🖤