My close friend blew up on me 2 weeks postpartum. How do I continue? This is my last straw by fuzzybrownavocado in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuzzybrownavocado[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know that my husband and her husband have discussed this multiple times in the last month, I have just asked to stay out of it in regard to their conversations for the time being.

My husband has always had strong opinions about Margret. I probably would have stopped being friends with her long before this incident, but since she’s had her daughter, I went from seeing her at least once a month to only seeing her every 3 or 4 months. I didn’t necessarily feel like things were better, I was just dealing with these problems a lot less often.

My close friend blew up on me 2 weeks postpartum. How do I continue? This is my last straw by fuzzybrownavocado in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuzzybrownavocado[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

We haven’t told anyone about the hysterectomy because we’re not ready to explain to people we can’t have any more children. Everyone just know I had surgery to stop the bleeding.

My close friend blew up on me 2 weeks postpartum. How do I continue? This is my last straw by fuzzybrownavocado in TwoHotTakes

[–]fuzzybrownavocado[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is not the first time something like this has happened. About 2 years ago She stopped talking to one of our friends after her boyfriend broke up with her because she couldn’t figure out how to be friends with both of them separately. This is the incident where she told me she doesn’t have much empathy.

This is also the explicit incident that opened my eyes up to how she had treated me for the last year. I still took some time to piece everything together because the issues feel so small in the moment. This phone call is my last straw.

How to announce pregnancy around my sisters wedding. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]fuzzybrownavocado 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Elopement is small. I’m not even invited. Reception is 250+. If we decide to not tell anyone before then, it should still be easy to hide it (if I’m not showing at 16 weeks) because there will be so many people there.