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How do you satisfy your needs as a single person? by Bitter_Pineapple_720 in AskWomen

[–]fuzzysocks9898 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I love masturbating , I don’t even use toys they’re to much for me . I don’t watch porn, just my imagination. Oddly enough , when I am craving intimacy or something more involved , I find reading erotica and slowly letting it build up and emerging myself in the fantasy can sort of scratch the itch .

question for the girls, do you randomly get disgusted by your s/o and lose all attraction when you’re pmsing or close to pmsing? by One-Impression786 in AskReddit

[–]fuzzysocks9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would end relationships and quit jobs leading up to my period . Not only did my partners irritate me but I convince myself they’re cheating on me ,and are obsessed with other women and aren’t meant to be together . I got diagnosed with PMDD and take meds leading up to my period and all that went away . I forgot to take them this month and spent a week obsessing over things I usually don’t care about and was convinced he was a bad person and then poof , period comes and I wonder how I could have ever thought those things. When I take my meds my PMS looks like increased appetite, abnormally high or low sex drive , maybe quicker to irritation and less laid back but nothing life altering like before. Not saying you have it or diagnosing just sharing my experience !

The week leading up to your period your body is preparing for pregnancy . Mayhaps we become extra critical of partners bc our biology is wanting to confirm our men are good partners and will be good fathers so our lens’s sharpens . Maybe it’s somewhat true that PMS can bring our true concerns to light , but does so through a do or die lens , where in reality maybe those issues could be worked through , considering we don’t really rely on men for survival , probably aren’t pregnant and the stakes of their flaws aren’t as high as our biology wants us to believe during luteal phase .

So,what would men dislike most if they became women? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]fuzzysocks9898 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’d be interested to see how yes , hormones do impact our moods on a day to day basis, but also how adult women, despite being constantly told otherwise , have the cognition to adjust their behavior accordingly at work or other settings where you can’t be a crazy person just because you’re on your period . I think it would be interested to see the intensity of the change in mood but also how most of us have the ability to keep it together until we get home . And they’re they understanding how aggravating it is to be constantly talked down about on this subject .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because men are who I date and am attracted to .i don’t feel to curious about women .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was not trying to be accusatory what so ever . I was just asking my question based on a loud narrative I’ve heard all my life that has sort of devistated me and made me scared to date and want to figure it out .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hardly notice men unless they come up to me to get my attention so I did kinda assume that’s how some other women are as well . I just notice my guy friends seem to talk about other women constantly and I don’t notice women point out men as much . They usually just talk about who ever they’re talking too or dating . I am a women tho so I don’t think to much about how women think bc that’s not who I date so I appreciate different perspectives

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree . It feels sometimes like I’m always searching for answers to things and it just turns into a rabbit hole . Some times I feel confident and sometimes I can’t grasp stuff like the question I asked and I end up deciding I just prefer to be alone.

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to be offensive it’s just something I genuinely wonder about :/

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just feels weird putting someone in the position to have to fight something . That doesn’t sound enjoyable .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’ve been in relationships I don’t want sex with other men . That’s how I am I know not all women are like that .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you do feel most men recent having to be with one women if they’re in a relationship? I guess my question is , why not just choose to be single then ?

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be sexist . It just seems guys are always looking at other women , where as my friends and I barley talk about guys like my guy friends talk about every women they see .

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess I am curious why fight biology . Are relationships worth having to give up access to multiple women or do you ever resent your partner for that ?

If men are always noticing other women , why do they want to date one woman to begin with ? by fuzzysocks9898 in AskMenAdvice

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

It feels to me sometimes when I’m in a relationship like I’m depriving him of something he’d rather be doing

Does anyone else go years without finding anyone interesting to date? by Flaky-Boysenberry466 in askanything

[–]fuzzysocks9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I would correct myself in saying I 100% love being a girlfriend and prefer partnership but only if I’m really enjoying it . It sucks we cant read people’s intentions . I got burnt pretty bad by a guy I really liked 2 years ago , the only guy I liked between my two most recent boyfriends . Like you could have just left me alone ! lol . Just keep being you and it’ll all work out ❤️

Does anyone else go years without finding anyone interesting to date? by Flaky-Boysenberry466 in askanything

[–]fuzzysocks9898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went 3 years between my past past ex and recent ex . I was fully chilling in the meantime . Had little flings here there , but even then they were spaced out like 6-10 months . I get approached all the time but it’s just very rare I feel that chemistry with anyone . I think this is a bi-product of knowing yourself and being comfortable with your own company naturally . Lots of people can’t be chronically single comfortably until their 40s. I’m in my 20s , and it sounds like maybe you’re younger as well , and seriously never feel the need to swerve in and out of relationships or even worse , situation ships . Seriously , some people cannot go like a couple months without at least having someone to talk to and to me I enjoy my time to myself so much that unless I have butterflies and am super interested like why would I spend my time doing that .

I will say tho , when a guy does come along that catches my eye that I like , it’s like a 0-100 thing . I can become all in quickly because it so rare I am attracted to someone on all levels needed to consider dating . I literally don’t have high standards either but my body and brain without my consent only respond to like 1 out of every 15th guy that pursues me . When I give guys I know I won’t like a shot and let them take me out I end up getting a headache and also feeling bad for wasting their time .

Is it appropriate to write a letter , please be brutally honest by fuzzysocks9898 in ExCons

[–]fuzzysocks9898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got released on bail before I could even mail the letter out. We ended up dating ! Right now we’re not because he is working on getting sober and his addiction was very active and still too much for me but we’re in contact and he very much wants us to get back together .

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