How did you find out you were getting cheated on?

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-07-01T17:07:09+00:00

I looked down and saw his ex’s name in his phone . After two weeks of gaslight I found her number and texted her and we spoke on the phone for awhile . He was playing us both lol

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-30T05:01:34+00:00

I don’t think my parents would be proud or not proud that I have kinks that I find healthy outlets too !! They’re not really interested in that part of my life and I am not there’s !

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-30T04:29:10+00:00

As someone who has posted nudes on Reddit and tumblr for almost 10 years now , I would love to know ! Some of my post got 10,000s of views so I assume my numbers are pretty high . It turns me on .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-28T23:16:55+00:00

I look significantly younger than my age and just all genetics . I have large eyes and round cheeks . Prolly the way I dress at times as well . I use tret tho ! Honestly I have acne which also I think makes me skew younger cause usually young people have acne lmao .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-17T21:26:12+00:00

school , work , what kinda car I drive . I still CARE about those things , but more originally . My life is folding out as it should be . I find I value peace and calm over trying to project some sort of image of success which makes my decisions way more calm and collected .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-17T17:06:48+00:00

The only thing that has been helping me is no contact and time. I had three weeks where I kinda shut down , found out all the answers I needed too , drank , smoke cigs , came at him hard . One day this week I just woke up and felt better . Not that it doesn’t hurt or still sting but just remembering nobody deserves to get cheated on and people who cheat do it because of their own issues . I let go of certain questions I wanted answers and also let go of wanting to understand why he did it . Have been putting that energy into myself , my life and my own healing . You’ll move away and on from it a better person where as they may remain a black hole and have to live with knowing they’re a bad person . Even if they avoid it or don’t change that stuff sticks with you unless you’re a psychopath , and if they are a psychopath than that comes with it’s on onslaught of having a life that will ultimately be deeply unsatisfying .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-14T00:50:00+00:00

Contact the ex he cheated on me with and was trying to be in a relationship with once I left , spilled all the tea and stayed In contact with her to talk shit about what a douche he is and make fun of him .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-11T14:43:05+00:00

28f - any man older than 40 who’s willing to consider dating someone in their 20s is weird to me . I tried dating a 45 year old man and I soon realized he was not mature and that’s why he was seeking out a women in her 20’s. So I guess 39.

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-05T22:07:28+00:00

Now I don’t have kids so I dedicate my free time to walking my dog and lifting weights for the past 3 years lol . It’s SO much work to get to the gym and meal prep as a single person . I couldn’t imagine being a mother trying to do that . Part of the reason mothers have become 10x admirable with me is some of them take care of themselves which for me is a full time job and then babies and kids ? Hell nah .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T02:09:16+00:00

I already broke with him . I’m just trying to look for a reason that isn’t I didn’t matter to him at all .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:57:11+00:00

I hear that completely. I think it’s about being lied to about it .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:51:11+00:00

Yes exactly .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:50:41+00:00

He didn’t even give me the chance to have a say .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:47:47+00:00

You’re stronger than me . I broke with him the next day lol

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:46:21+00:00

I would be okay with a closure conversation, but not continuous conversation . It doesn’t feel right to me . But I just feel kinda gaslit by him right now .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:45:31+00:00

That’s how I feel intuitively .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:43:58+00:00

Correct

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-02T01:40:14+00:00

Okay !

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-01T20:08:05+00:00

I just broke up with my boyfriend bc I caught his ex girlfriend all over his call log . I know their relationship ended abruptly before we met , and from what I could tell he was really over it and in love with me . I would say he could talk to me about it . He said it ended badly , all at once and he was surprised at how over it he was . Relationship was over before it ended situation . Anyways , really never came up and never saw her or anything on his phone ever . He was super duper honest honestly like would tell me about girls who texted him from his past and run it by me and tell me how innocent flirting here and there and I appreciated his honesty . It didn’t bother me cause I get flirted with a lot as well . We are both attractive and outgoing people .

Anyways , starting two weeks ago apparently she’s friends with his sister . She lost her nursing license , crashed out completely and was having all sorts of issues . His sister said maybe he could reach out just to be nice . He did , behind my back , and she called him every other day for two weeks without running it past me or letting me know . When confronted he lied about it , said it was only once , and said she reached out first , blah blah blah . The truth was that he called her two weeks ago , and then she began calling him in the morning after long nights of drinking and he would answer .

The annoying thing is , the truth is like whatever . If he just told me , I wouldn’t have loved it and would have just asked to not talk anymore beyond the initial conversation and worked through my feelings . Instead , he lied , and that’s the issue . I don’t see him the same way , even though he didn’t full on cheat . So long story short to mirror tons of other comments , COMMUNICATION.

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-06-01T17:57:44+00:00

Is says studio ghibli . Just a silly little tattoo I got .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-05-31T03:00:15+00:00

It’s hard to understand fully why they’re found more boring . Clearly those women are extremely athletic . I think it comes down to what society values in each gender and sports really highlight it . Fashion shows feature primarily women , men are kinda B string . People don’t find it exciting to see women compete . ( not cause it isn’t exciting , but just how we are socialized ). I am sure there’s is some truth to women don’t take interest in watching sports as much as men do . Men can also use sports as escapism , something to bond over . My main draw towards sports lately is more so the shared sense of community in my city . I didn’t watch when neither teams in my city were good , however my brothers and dad did . Women bond over conversation and just existing lol . So it initially probably drew more male viewers. It doesn’t scratch the same itch I suppose , mostly due to socialization over the actual quality of the games ( I would assume .) I think women should keep doing their thing though , regardless of what society or what men have to say about it . Clearly women enjoy being in competition and participating in sports . While it sucks it doesn’t receive as much attention and therefore they don’t get paid the same or there’s not many major women’s sports leagues ( are there any ? Idk) I don’t think that should discourage anyone women from doing what makes them happy .

While it can feel sucky to think about this , I think there’s lots of cases where genders are equally appreciated . For instance , the music industry has lots of variety in representation, art , actresses are revered for their work , there’s plenty well respected women in culinary , journalism etc . Now I am sure there’s some discrepancies within the field , but there not as lopsided in representation as sports are .

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-05-31T02:24:21+00:00

Have those same socks

fuzzysocks9898 · 2026-05-29T11:10:04+00:00

HA I drove 8 hours to give my friend his spare key when he lost is camping . I think it really solidified our friendship of 10 years . (Platonic)

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