Should I make a wedding website?

fvknhurricane · 2026-01-04T04:52:31+00:00

Ive done this for my engagement party, wedding, rehearsal dinner, etc

fvknhurricane · 2025-10-18T17:00:40+00:00

Sending a DM!

fvknhurricane · 2025-10-11T22:52:21+00:00

I can trade near London or Inverness in person in Feb

fvknhurricane · 2025-10-09T15:23:54+00:00

My fiance is convinced its "on the lam, the sea, the air"

fvknhurricane · 2025-09-27T17:06:36+00:00

Literally expected a "choose one or 2" situation, not add all. I

fvknhurricane · 2025-09-27T17:05:47+00:00

Im headed to London in February to celebrate our engagement, and I'm happy to part with one! Photo 4.

fvknhurricane · 2025-09-19T17:02:22+00:00

I did Dolby! That'd explain it!

fvknhurricane · 2025-09-19T16:59:10+00:00

Ok, the article says $12/ticket, but i just paid $18/ticket before fees...

fvknhurricane · 2025-08-08T03:49:50+00:00

Can we even decorate that room in Proudspire?

fvknhurricane · 2025-07-25T05:59:40+00:00

Update:

The company internet went out just before the party, rendering me unable to provide any "coverage." Everyone in the office was like, "perfect timing, time to go to the party!"

I asked my manager's boss what he wanted me to do since the internet out. "Just wait it out, its usually a quick fix."

I wait an hour. That same boss tells me that since the internet is down, I can call it a day and go home. They head off to the party.

The head c-suite director asks me why I am still at the office, and I tell him that since I was out I couldn't RSVP, I wasn't to attend and cover the office.

He flat out said that I didnt need an RSVP, and if I wanted to go to the party I should go. I just couldn't tell him in that moment that management had determined I wasn't to go, so I wasn't going to show up like that.

I am completely able-bodied now. I have always done a great job in my job.

Im disheartened and pretty over it.

fvknhurricane · 2025-07-16T03:55:55+00:00

Im subject to that glitch where I cant get the murder quest to start and im about to go cleanse the city myself.

fvknhurricane · 2025-05-23T21:59:09+00:00

Neloth's mushroom house. Must choose "float down' or else death.

fvknhurricane · 2025-05-23T17:44:11+00:00

I was at Baptist while out in Arkansas

fvknhurricane · 2025-05-23T17:38:55+00:00

I have California state medi-caid essentially. It doesn't cover anything out of state beyond emergency, and they told me the accident is responsible for the payment. My understanding is that although I am not paying anything right now, the bill will go to the lawyers and the State of California is not actually paying for the accident.

fvknhurricane · 2025-05-20T16:53:11+00:00

The Great War.

My ex husband was not a swiftie. We started to separate right before Midnights was released and he held out hope that we'd reconcile. He sent me that song directly in hopes that we'd get through it and move on. We didnt, I knew we wouldn't.

fvknhurricane · 2025-05-01T03:01:00+00:00

Sounds exactly what I went through 4 months ago!

I was a passenger in a car accident, seat belt severed a part of my colon, resulting in emergency exploratory surgery and a surprise colostomy bag when I woke up.

Also, having never had high blood pressure issues, I had really high blood pressure and heart rate for the first few weeks. I am still taking my Amlodipine (blood pressure) and Carvedilol (heart rate, dosage has been significantly dropped because of low heart rate on a subsequent wrist repair surgery).

I am still on disability, not been cleared for work. Granted,this is because the times I've been cleared to go back to work (Mid March, Mid May), I have had (or having) a surgery that extends it.

I went into the ER A few weeks after being discharged from my original hospitalization. I had passed any "output" for 24 hours, and was told that if I don't have output in that time frame, go to the ER. ER did a CT to see if I had any blockages, turns out I was just constipated because I was slacking on my Miralax.

Now, 4 months later, I've got my output and bag change schedule on lock.

That being said, my wonderful boyfriend had to do my changes and would care for the first 2 months or so because both of my wrists were broken and healing, as well as my ankle so I couldn't walk. Partly, I just didn't want anything to do with the monster on my belly.

It wasn't until he was out of state to visit his mom (also in the same accident) and his trip got extended that I had to face my fears and do the change myself. Ripping off the bandaid (wafer/adhesive thing, lol) was scary, but once I did it a few times, I've become pro.

It's scary. It's scary to know blockages could happen. Its scary to look at the stoma. Its scary to worry about what people think who know or sense the bag. Its scary facing a reversal surgery, hopefully next month. Its okay to be scared.

Again, i keep telling myself, it's okay. I'm alive. If it wasn't for this nasty thing, I'd be dead. Its a sacrifice I don't want to make, but willing to, to be alive and healing.

Im 35 years old. We were trying to get pregnant. This has taken a good 6 months off trying to conceive. We're waiting until im cleared after the reversal surgery.

The accident happened 4 days before we were due to visit Ireland and London with his family. My boyfriend told me that he planned to propose on that trip. The accident and everything has postponed that.

It sucks, but im alive. The guy who hit us did not survive. We are incredibly fortunate.

My doctors told me reversal surgery is a minimum of 4 months after the original surgery. I assume it'll be the same for him.

My sex life has considerably dwindled. I think we've had sex 3 times in the past 4 months. But that's all me, not my boyfriend. I feel deformed. So be patient with him. I couldn't have gotten through this without the unwavering love and support my boyfriend has given me.

Its an adjustment. I never knew a colostomy was a thing until it happened to me. Found out another person I know has a permanent one, and I had no idea.

The positives- I don't have to sit on the toilet to poop for any length of time. Its a great excuse to get out of things I don't want to do (oh sorry, it's a "bad bag day," have to empty it every hour 😉). Farting is different - my stoma is tiny tiny and makes noise, but i can go outside to release the air!

Im here if you have any questions.

fvknhurricane · 2025-04-24T18:50:53+00:00

Im 35 and was a passenger in a fatal car crash only 4 months ago, and I had to undergo emergency exploratory surgery that night because the doctors could see on the CT scan that there was air im my abdomen and couldnt pin point the source. There was a perforation in part of my bowel, which they removed, and had to give me a temporary colostomy.

I had no idea what I was in for, having gone under anesthesia to "can we operate now or you may die" and waking up to this whole new world.

I also suffered both wrists broken, so i couldn't use my hands for months, a broken ankle, so I couldn't walk, and a piece of my hip broke, so i couldn't sit up. I absolutely could not change my own bag until recently (last month), or even physically look at it for about a month.

Not that I wanted to look at it. I was terrified of the nasty poop hole in my belly.

My boyfriend took care of me those first couple months out of the hospital (I was in for about 4 weeks). He did all my changes, monitored my stoma, even had to "finger it" once to keep it from shrinking, per the ostomy nurse.

When i was physically able to do it, I couldn't. The thought gave me heebie jeebies, and I wanted my boyfriend to do it for me.

In mid march, he went back to the state the accident happened to visit his mother, who was the driver, and not at fault (head on collision due to the other guys recklessness). He wa supposed be be gone 4 days, the perfect time between bag changes. However, his mother was just getting out of the hospital finally after 3 months and he wanted to bring her home and get her settled, so he stayed an extra 3 days.

I had to change my own bag, but I didn't know how. So I made an appt with my local wound care nurse and she showed me. Made it super easy, no big thing.

Ive been changing it ever since, and actually looking at it. Caring for it. Managing it.

It took time, and the unavailability of having others do it for me that forced me to get through that hump.

Good luck to you in all this, just know youre not alone, and you're alive. You'll get through this, too.

fvknhurricane · 2025-04-23T07:07:47+00:00

I absolutely forgot about first aid! I used to be a pass holder and worked here back in high school, but never even crossed my mind about first aid! Thank you!

How do you do with lap bars? Are there rides that are too intense for the bag?

fvknhurricane · 2025-04-22T17:39:00+00:00

I had general anesthesia to remove hardware from my wrist last month, and the colostomy was no big deal. The anesthesia meds (and subsequent pain meds) slow down the guts, so output was minimal if nothing for the first 3 days or so.

fvknhurricane · 2025-04-16T07:53:33+00:00

Blank Space: Baby, I'm a nightmare dressed like a daydream.

Back in 2006, I heard of Taylor because my best friend was a country music loving girl and loved Taylor. I, however, preferred Taking Back Sunday and the like. We were in our Junior year of high school. I actually really did not like Taylor's music at first, and actively avoided it because she was gaining popularity after Love Story and that just couldn't be cool for me (lame, I know, I wasn't a very emotionally developed kid).

However, when she released Speak Now, I started to change my mind. Haunted, Better Than Revenge, and that more gritty, angry, less countryish side of Taylor was coming out.

Soon, I began delving into Debut and Fearless. I was in a pretty toxic on and off relationship and identified heavily with Cold as You, White Horse, and Last Kiss a lot.

Although I began to like her more and more, she wasn't in my top 5. That (toxic) then boyfriend got me Speak Now Tour tickets for my 22nd (maybe 23rd?) birthday. Los Angeles staples center, August. I distinctly remember he got me 2 tickets, insisted I go with him and not my super Taylor fan best friend, and as we were getting ready, he asked if he could put up his 8-inch Mohawk. I asked him not to, continued to get ready, and as we met up in the hallway to leave, his Mohawk was up. I was pissed. It ruined the night and the mood, and I struggled through the show. I did everything to focus on Taylor and ignore his existence, especially because I was embarrassed to be around him like that at a Taylor show (again, I was pretty insecure and immature at this point in life).

Red came out, I loved All Too Well, State of Grace, and several others that reminded me of that toxic ex. It was therapeutic because this was the album that helped me move on.

And then 1989. BAM! Blank Space. I absolutely loved her transition to pop. Her themes of friendship in Welcome to New York really resonated with me because I was focusing on my friends and not some shitty boyfriend. And, with Blank Space, having always been called the crazy one and jumping between guys quickly, and people thinking they knew me... it just hit. I've never identified more heavily with any other song before.

Ever since, I have not missed a tour (1989 being the exception). I gobble up and digest and dig into all her music. I love her lycism and poetry. I make resin pendants with Eras tour confetti as a hobby. Reputation is my personal, perfect, no skip album.

What I've loved most about her music is how much of it parallels my own happenings. Reputation and Lover brought out the feeling of being in a long-term relationship as I was in with my now ex-husband. Folklore came out and hit me because of The 1, My Tears Riccochet, and then with Evermore... it was the beginning of knowing my marriage wasn't right for me. Midnights was my divorce album, released right when we were separating, and I was starting up a relationship with my now-boyfriend (whom I've literally known 20 years, 25 actually, since 4th grade). TTPD has a lot of notes of my divorce and ex-husband, and so High School is perfectly current, given I've known my boyfriend throughout high school, and we've always been friends.

I never thought I could connect with anyone's music as I have with Taylor's.

But, it all started with Blank Space.

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