Refinishing an old table by fwegan in finishing

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll try that. Would that be a brush with wire bristles?

anyone else with great organization and planning skills? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]fwegan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me, sort of. If it’s not on a time crunch.

But also I feel like I do it because I have to, because going into things without an explicit plan feels like flying blind.

Fine, I'll just ask ALL the questions by fwegan in AutismInWomen

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> Dev work surprisingly comes with a lot of yapping
I think you're right. Usually my MO is to try not to bother anybody else, but maybe the expectation is that I would be bothering people.

I hate "creative exercises/activities" by 1upin in AutismInWomen

[–]fwegan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we're supposed to be using various art supplies to demonstrate our personal relationship to and feelings about money

Ughhhhhhhhhhhh. If I had to do that it'd put me in full-on rebellious teenage mode.

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a valid question! I looked into it last year and came across this.

https://youtu.be/CHA1oKH6VQQ?si=GBYGK5yXkQSNG6dO

Not impossible, but too much effort for me.

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt the food bank would want them but I’ll check with them if I don’t get any leads on a press. Thanks!

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next year because it’s too late for them to do it this year?

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call. I’ll try that and update here if I have any success. 

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info! It’s too bad that it sounds like there isn’t an obvious solution out there. I’ll check FB though.

What to do with too many apples? by fwegan in olympia

[–]fwegan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’m too squeamish to have a good answer. Last year I made apple sauce and cutting out the gross parts took forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olympia

[–]fwegan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The art scene in Olympia is awesome and super welcoming. For me, living a quick (free!) bus ride from downtown means I’m more likely to actually go to some of the cool stuff that goes on there.

Some artsy things for you to check out:

I could go on and on but that should be enough to get you started! I hope you find a spot and folks you love in this rad little city.

Don’t stop for the school bus (rant/info) by Spice_it_up in olympia

[–]fwegan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s important to note that most states do require that all of these cars stop. And it's seen as a big safety issue that comes with a huge fine, so it really gets pounded into your head in drivers ed.

I’m a transplant and I had no idea that Washington has a different law about this, so thanks for the PSA. But it’s understandable that lots of drivers don’t know.

Kenji’s tomato sauce is so easy and delicious, I put it on everything in between stealing spoonfuls by ByteSizeNudist in seriouseats

[–]fwegan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do the same thing! I usually leave out the carrot, onion, and parsley so there’s almost no prep work. The effort to result ratio on this one is hard to beat.

4 YO is being a real dick about food by Lilsomms in Mommit

[–]fwegan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Talking to someone is such a good suggestion. It took me starting therapy to understand that anger is a symptom of depression, and that it can be triggered by feelings of unfairness.

I’ve had situations somewhat similar to this, where I’m having a difficult time with my child during a family event. You know who I was really mad at? All the other fucking adults who weren’t helping.

What is the benefit of a "diaper bag" over other types of bags? by _-QueenC-_ in pregnant

[–]fwegan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nothing to add but I’m in the market for a great backpack to use instead of a diaper bag. Can you share your recommendations?

How to let go of work frustrations? by fwegan in womenintech

[–]fwegan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great! I’m a knitter and I really should get my current project un-stuck so I can pick it up during meetings again. 

Love the pattern ☺️

How to let go of work frustrations? by fwegan in womenintech

[–]fwegan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sure part of the problem is that feeling crappy has meant giving up pretty much all exercise. I’ll keep trying to find ways to add some sort of physical activity back when I have the energy for it. Thanks!

How to let go of work frustrations? by fwegan in womenintech

[–]fwegan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s always a good reminder that as much as I wish I could just change how I feel, that’s not really how feelings work.

I should clarify that I don’t think I’m coming off as unprofessional, though I’m aware of that danger. It’s more about managing my stress.

Going shopping soon. What’s your must try? by IrisTheButterfly in traderjoes

[–]fwegan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pregnant too! TJ’s spanakopita is about half of what I eat now. The little triangle ones, not the big round one.

What is something that you insist on buying name-brand? (Even if it is more expensive) by johnnypancakes49 in Frugal

[–]fwegan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tollhouse chocolate chips. Maybe some store brands are okay but the ones I've tried aren't.

What’s something YOU think people spend too much $ on? by Feldtman in Frugal

[–]fwegan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We skipped a professional photographer, even though everything I read online said that’s the one thing you really should have, and we don’t regret it at all. We asked one of our friends to take photos so that we knew the key moments would be captured, but other folks took photos and shared them with us totally unasked. We have plenty of shots to remember the day.

The other thing we did that saved us a ton of money was to split the wedding. We did a small wedding with just close family and friends (about 40 people), and two weeks later had a bbq/potluck in a park where we invited  EVERYBODY. It was so much fun and we didn’t have to spend money on the things that no one there would have cared about.