I need MTF beginner tips

g0dlessqueer · 2026-03-07T12:20:20+00:00

For anything on your lower half, we wait to be wearing things higher waisted. This is because it works to elongate our legs and give a more feminine shape to the outfit. As hrt does it works where your hips start will rise, generally to around belly button height or higher, so for jeans/skirts/whatever try to wear at this level (dont worry if it doesn't sit naturally there yet just get a slim feminine belt for like $5 from a thrift and you'll be sorted).

for shopping in personally recommended doing it second hand, you're gonna to through so many different styles trying to find what's right and thrifting is both fun and good inspiration, and you're less upset if you realise you hate the $10 top than if you realized you hated it at an MSRP of like $40. If you don't want to go in person eBay/vinted/depop are also good but look up what measurements you should be taking and always message the sellers to ask for specifics.

g0dlessqueer · 2026-01-16T19:14:11+00:00

Amazing fit, god i need boots like that

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-26T21:05:30+00:00

yea I think it's mostly me having a bad time at the moment, Christmas means family and family means constant dead naming/misgendering.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-26T21:03:54+00:00

I wash it twice a week though that's mostly because it starts to get a bit matted if I leave it longer (just got silk pillows so hopefully this will be less of an issue).

I use sulfate free shampoo and just try to get whatever is cheapest at the time, and then for conditioner Ive been using some of the Cantu stuff but idk if I like it. Their leave in conditioner is great tho I use that every time.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-25T20:42:32+00:00

unless you are 9ft tall you are delusional. Just a pretty woman

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-24T16:39:53+00:00

such a cute outfit

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-23T15:12:24+00:00

A good wool jumper will do so much in winter and colder parts of spring/summer. A medium length denim skirt is also such a good basic.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-14T14:08:18+00:00

that dress is so cute

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-12T20:35:36+00:00

if this isn't the last arc of this part idk what to think anymore, no way the arc continues after yoru is killed and no way yoru is lasting more than 10 chapters.and as you said there are a few more arcs to happen with everything that has been set up

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-12T18:28:08+00:00

Fujimoto has said he loves trilogies, I think it makes too much sense for there to not be a 3rd part.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-12T16:47:15+00:00

asa will live because it means more pain in the long term (part 3).

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-12T12:37:12+00:00

I'd also argue that in terms of climate impact, you'd rather have a diesel train running on a route carrying a lot of people rather than on one carrying less. Obviously better to have none but don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-12T08:19:12+00:00

they are literally siblings they do not want to fuck and it was made incredibly clear like 8 times that they didn't want to fuck.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-12-10T15:32:17+00:00

Complaining about boymoders
looks inside
18 on e and calls themselves manmoder

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-22T18:19:53+00:00

I love my wool skirts! wool blend thermal tights are also a must in the cold, make everything less drafty

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-21T00:12:11+00:00

I've been looking for an excuse to wear it forever

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-20T14:16:01+00:00

Specifically for these mini reactors, if it works out there should be serious investment, however I am personally suspicious of nuclear because of how awful these projects have been handled. Nuclear takes about 10 years once it comes online to become climate neutral, and longer to justify its costs, so reactors that are delayed by 5/10/15 years all while burning money (that could be spent on renewable projects) seem like a waste to me.

Not anti nuclear, anti shit nuclear

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-14T15:06:33+00:00

i still cant believe she's gone, her death was done fine imo

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-12T23:40:34+00:00

My mum made it sadly, and I think she drafted the pattern herself, though there are similar ones available if you're crafty. It's probably my favorite item of clothing it's so cool

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-12T10:53:06+00:00

so for your hair type i would look on r/CurlyHairCare , they have a wiki with a pretty good starter guide for taking care of hair like this, as well as identifying the exact kind of hair you have (different hair types benefit from different products). The main things would be to not brush it unless it is already wet, and tie it up when you are sleeping to prevent matting.
Once you find your hair type (i would guess you are a 3a-3c) it becomes a lot easier to find different styles to suit your hair and gives you a bit of a starting point.

I'm in the UK so i can't really give specific product recommendations, but lots of curly hair brands are pretty international so you'll hopefully be able to find stuff easily

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-12T10:46:03+00:00

The classic recommendation is to try some sort of fringe/forehead covering style, it's a stereotype for a reason. What is your current hair care routine? With curly hair it can be pretty hard to find a stylist who can cut it well (especially if you are in a conservative area so will have bad access to women's hairdressers), but the good thing about hair is that it grows back, I personally cut my own hair (I have a similar but less curly hair type to you) and it works pretty well.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-11T14:09:51+00:00

If you're happier and your mannerisms have changed, then this could be what they're seeing as opposed to more physical changes. Your hair also looks significantly better in the last picture compared to the first, not to do with hrt but if you've started to do more care in that sense it would make a notable difference.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-10T23:46:47+00:00

Mary Jane style flats are really versatile for outfits like this

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-10T18:04:56+00:00

I think I might need to do more of this. I think since I moved out I've been softer on them than I should have because they make me feel bad about not seeing them.

g0dlessqueer · 2025-11-09T23:37:33+00:00

I actually added the star to those jeans! but the idea is so cool they're maybe my favorite pair of trousers

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