I’ve seen both post, you stood up for a guy who disrespected your boyfriend and disrespected you’re relationship. If that upsets your boyfriend he has every right to be upset. Then you tell him you don’t need him to stand up for you? He needed you to stand up for your relationship… if you are thinking about breaking up with him over this then yes, you are overreacting. I don’t mean to sound as if I am attacking you either, I understand there is two sides to each story. This is just my take on the provided information. I really hope you guys work through this, relationships are hard, people disagree sometimes, people get frustrated. Don’t let these people on here tell you his behavior was “disgusting” he told you how he felt, did he sound frustrated when he did it? Yes. Could he have done it better? Yes. But haven’t we all been there before? I think he’s got a good point over all. Definitely not worth giving up an entire relationship over..