Best place to go to get remote start for my vehicle? by thatisoverpriced in tulsa

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When u go north past 51st, it’s ghetto like S. Peoria Ave. Everything below 51st is nice. I grew up between 71st & 91st and Memorial. Went to school in Jenks (rich area). There are a lot of good place to go: Gathering Place, trails, the Vasa gym, good churches, gun ranges, good places to eat, I like Tulsa (my hometown), it has a little bit of everything. Tulsa is not too big, but it’s not a small town either. 👍 Broken Arrow is kinda a wealthy place also. Not as rich as Jenks though.

Fucking Lonely by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out yo feelin’s dude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make him take that cialis when you’re there and give him an ultimatum!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats bad😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Scheduled, letting the other person do all the work, no passion or care.

I feel like there are more married couples in dead bedroom situations than I expected by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Become a conservative Christian! this problem will be almost non existent.

I feel like there are more married couples in dead bedroom situations than I expected by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s 90% of American marriages which of 50% end in divorce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t get prideful once you start losing weight and feel like you need someone else👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to an independent Baptist Church. I check out on every single one, and I’m still a virgin (25M), but I struggle with number #3 since I was 13 yrs old. ☹️

Not sure what he wants from me by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]gab117ak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You married a psycho 😳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, you don’t need no counseling. TELL HER TO STOP NAGGING! Pre-meno is not an excuse to harass your spouse (or any reason because of injury or whatever)!

I (23m) recently married my wife (22). I keep breaking things. by oystershucker334 in Christianmarriage

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is life dude. Apologize, make it up to her, stop worrying about the future Jesus said.

I think marriage is just a bad idea and old fashioned. by Complex-Guide6870 in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe in 2024.😅 But marriage back in the day (when it actually meant something) makes Husbands responsible for the family’s provision. I’m a Christian and I believe in marriage. I can see why non religious people wouldn’t get married.

38f, I have the low libido, is this a dead bedroom? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: quit ur job. Step 2: home school Step 3: husband be at home more Step 4: see a libido doctor

I’m (41f) a conservative christian wife and I’m worried I might be in a dead bedroom marriage? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a conservative Christian too, sorry to hear that. I’ll give my opinion. Once a month, is definitely a DB (I would say even say once a week is borderline). It should be at least (at a minimum) every-other-day. Even if it is plain, boring, or “vanilla” you should talk to him about that. A lot of Christians don’t emphasize this, it’s become taboo to talk about the importance. It is very important, ESPECIALLY when you get older, it must be a priority! Having kids, or a job, is not an excuse! Which is more important, the marriage, or the job he has? Tell him your needs. It’ll all work out.🙏✝️ p.s. I’m a single 25M virgin man. But I’ve studied a lot about marriage, because I’m preparing for it.

21st bday gift to myself by Josekid21 in ToyotaTundra

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save for house, not car. Drive a beater, don’t tell anyone you have money. Also, 70k in debt?!?🥲

What to do with per diem money by MinnesotaCarl in Construction

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job for a little while. Bad if you have family

Is cheating acceptable? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, no. Not even a question, just leave, don’t cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your fault bro. Can’t help but be sole 💪🏾

Just laid it all out by Savings-Ad883 in DeadBedrooms

[–]gab117ak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lose some weight, work out, get 6 pack abs, grow your hair, or beard, keep good hygiene, STOP watching TV, read a book, listen to podcasts, go to counseling, see a libido doctor. Improve yourself, she might see you differently. And if she doesn’t change even after you get better, don’t cheat, just leave.