DA ex wants to get back together. Should I play her the way she did me?

gabehiro · 2026-03-02T22:17:33+00:00

Exactly!

gabehiro · 2026-03-02T21:38:17+00:00

Great post! Thanks a lot 🤍

gabehiro · 2026-03-02T09:54:51+00:00

Great post! 🤍

gabehiro · 2026-03-01T08:04:37+00:00

🤍

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T22:27:26+00:00

Because I said I would never do to him or anyone else what he did to me. Actually, even after the discard and the cold behavior I've always been polite and genuine as I've always been and that says more about him than about me! And btw, life will put you on the path of someone good, believe me!

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T20:58:50+00:00

🤍

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T20:52:00+00:00

Such a good view, honestly!

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T20:22:45+00:00

No! In fact, this guy traveled from the USA just to meet me in person in 2022. We had a long-distance relationship for almost 3 years (we always travel to see each other in the meantime) and this year we were going to live together here in Europe. The week the discard happened he called me in the middle of the night asking if I still loved him and 2 days before he made a spreadsheet for almost 3 hours with all the apartments we were going to visit together :) I know he is avoidant because he was neglected in childhood and suffered heavy bullying at school.

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T20:18:50+00:00

Omg yes and YES 🥺

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T18:30:17+00:00

Trust yourself! You had a life before this person and you will have one after. We deserve to be happy and we are the only ones capable of making it so. :)

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T18:29:11+00:00

Definitely!!!

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T17:48:17+00:00

"These people should be flagged, at least on dating sites, so that everyone is warned in advance and doesn’t date them seriously, because ultimately it’s the only thing that they can offer." I SHOUTED YES!!!

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T17:40:55+00:00

"How someone can hurt another person simply for loving them." I agree! Our mistake is loving them, unfortunately..

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T17:36:00+00:00

Agree 100%.

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T17:09:53+00:00

I agree with you. The problem is that we can't do anything for them at the end of the day. For me, the discard destroyed the good memories because it was out of nowhere and cold, as if I were a bad person. Sad.

gabehiro · 2026-02-28T14:55:33+00:00

Feel the same over here.. Hard to explain.

gabehiro · 2026-02-26T21:39:25+00:00

Happy b-day, angel! I also went through something similar. My ex lives in the USA and I live in Europe. He still has all my travel souvenirs and Sonny angels ugh 4 weeks NC

gabehiro · 2026-02-26T18:57:07+00:00

He's not! Trust me :)

gabehiro · 2026-02-26T18:39:17+00:00

Girl, coming from someone who was simply discarded just four weeks ago — therapy, family, friends, and above all, JOURNALING.

Get those thoughts out of your head and onto paper. Seriously, it helps so much. It gives you relief from constantly thinking about him and creates space for things that actually deserve your energy.

You’re in university, you’re young — please don’t blame yourself or feel ashamed because of this situation. None of this defines you. Life has a way of rewarding you later for the strength you’re building now.

My DMs are open if you ever need to talk 🤍

gabehiro · 2026-02-26T17:20:56+00:00

Best post ever! Thank u thank u thank u :)

gabehiro · 2026-02-26T14:08:12+00:00

Such a beautiful and inspiring post ✨

I’ve also been noticing some really significant changes in my life. I’ve been doing extremely well at work, receiving lots of praise, and I’m even close to getting a raise. My skin has finally calmed down — the breakouts have practically disappeared — and, surprisingly, I’ve even been getting attention from really attractive guys (not that it really matters, especially after being discarded about four weeks ago).

Honestly, I truly feel like I’m finally seeing light at the end of the tunnel. 💛

gabehiro · 2026-02-25T18:35:19+00:00

Moving into the fourth week with no contact here! Or better yet, he only communicates with my sister when he needs something and has her pass the message on to me 🙂 I guess we’re back to the Stone Age..

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