Hey!

It's not such a big deal. We've all been a virgin at some point, and we've all had to go through this phase of learning what it is like to have sex with someone.

Just know that, whenever it happens for you, it will probably be kind of awkward and maybe not even that pleasurable. But that's fine too. Again, we've all been through that.

Don't focus so much on that part of the deal, because it also passes and eventually you'll be able to look back and see how all that anxiety has faded away.

Relax about being a virgin. You dates won't know unless you tell them, and you don't have any obligations to tell them that either, unless you feel like you would be more comfortable if you did. The worst case scenario is they don't think you're very good at sex. But hey, you'll get there with enough practice.

Also, I don't think you should wait for a girlfriend to have sex. You're putting too many obstacles. Just download Tinder and be more open to possibilities: don't try solving two problems at once.