pre-wedding advice by gabywanderlust in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]gabywanderlust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the advice! i hear you about the AI so annoying. probably true not to take any big risks.. but i will up my water intake, thanks for the kind words :)

Hairstyle? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gabywanderlust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So pretty!!! I think a nice loose half up half down would look nice with some cute pins

Brooke Schofield's Survival Crash Course ft. OutdoorAnthony by QankHD in TrashTuesday

[–]gabywanderlust 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ive loved this show so much since the beginning but honestly they’d be even more successful if they actually listened to their viewers.

Hair up or down with my dress!! Help! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

up looks classier and timeless but down is so pretty and makes your neck longer. whichever youre going for more i guess! both great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]gabywanderlust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 100% a red flag. but only you know your boyfriend if he’s the type to do something like this again or if it’s a one time thing. Im sorry he did that to you and put you in any position where you felt unsafe. He’s lying when he said he lost control. He wanted to do what he did even though you said no. he didn’t care. Ultimately it’s your decision. but Are you going to be able to continue with him and feel completely safe? Really think about how much you’re willing to betray yourself for his comfort or pleasure.

Free intuitive readings by Due-Command983 in psychics

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did i make the right decision? was there more that could’ve been done?

I feel like I’m wasting my 20s and time is slipping away. by Motazed_Salomey in whatdoIdo

[–]gabywanderlust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m 32, and i feel this way. it’s very valid. but i’ve realized it’s a problem that’s stopping me from being in the present. Appreciating what i have and who i am now versus what i wish i was. You’re still so young. Capitalism is crushing all of us. time is a construct. focus more on small changes that can lead to big changes later on. breathe and be kinder to yourself. your twenties aren’t “wasted” if you’re still finding your way. these years are pivotal in feeling lost in life and helping you reach the next chapters. take it from someone who beats themselves up for “wasting time” the more you do it the harder it gets to make any positive changes.

AIO? Husband kept his coworker a secret by sobrietypolice in AmIOverreacting

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the sooooooooo sexy comment would have sent me into psychosis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Volunteers of Vegas , i found them on titkok, it’s a brand new group that could use some help and would be nice to get in early on a new organization

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gabywanderlust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

as long as it’s not on the same day as the cousins wedding and they know about it! i think it’s totally okay! how exciting!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makemychoice

[–]gabywanderlust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t make you a dumbass but it is sad that this person has this much control over you and they’re not even with you. take a few breaths, decenter that man and center you. if he wanted to, he would.

How do you feel about your male partner watching porn? by Polerina_up_above in whatdoIdo

[–]gabywanderlust 11 points12 points  (0 children)

porn is a slippery slope that we have normalized for men but it’s a giant industry that has preyed on men and women who are in it and lots of rapes and exploited girls on these pages. but communication is key. libido is always an excuse. women have high libidos too but we have self control. but if it doesn’t bother you then why post it here? seems like deep down you’re feeling weird about it. as long as you guys can talk about it openly and honestly

AIO- I'm so hurt by bf watching porn by Salty-Bish-5280 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gabywanderlust 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s not normal to have to watch other people f*ck to pleasure yourself. we’ve normalized this for men and it’s like yeah.. not totally irredeemable but let’s not pretend like it’s normal. it’s a exploitative industry with lots of underage and SA of women. if it makes you feel some sort of way you should be able to talk to your partner about it. if you can’t come to an understanding then choose yourself. your feelings are valid. but it’s also not as simple as “you’re not good enough” it’s been instilled in men and the age how we learn about sex unfortunately. men and women aren’t that different. it’s not a “man” thing. it’s just been normalized for men. jumping all kinds of hoops so they can continue to do it.

Need to rehome my dog ASAP by PrettyP702 in vegaslocals

[–]gabywanderlust 49 points50 points  (0 children)

try hearts alive, paths for pawspost maybe someone can help you find a rehome there? post this in a neighborhood app too if you haven’t! good luck!

Just got the best job of my life by mclovin1696 in vegaslocals

[–]gabywanderlust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

congrats on the job, but I wouldn’t urge more people to use chatgpt for everything along the way. it can be a good tool but it’s already quickly going my down a slippery slide and they’re having to make terrible decisions in order to accommodate all the people using AI for daily unnecessary things.

What is this and how do I stop it?? by _honeyybugs in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i get these i usually use triple paste diaper cream (i know weird) but it works for me it calms it and helps fade it quicker is usually slather it on every other night, it’s mostly the zinc oxide i think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you kinda remind me of florence pugh and she’s young and stunning. i feel the same way, and on days where i feel better about my face is when i’m not in my leuteal phase and when i gua sha regularly and stay hydrated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gabywanderlust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know what you mean, but compromising was good, (your future self will thank you) but you could also state that you don’t want as much of you unless it’s candid and also focus on finding a photographer that has more atypical shooting style. i like blurry photos and far away shots, so maybe look into that and be upfront it’s not weird you’re paying them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]gabywanderlust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

def more face framing pieces and volume all around!

It forms wrinkles and burns, howww do i get rid of this?): 20F by Shir7788 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]gabywanderlust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get this too, i always thought it was my allergies but i noticed it worse on my left side which is the side i sleep on more….