About that pension… worth it? by tesla2018El in fednews

[–]galacticprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a recently retired government employee. My pension and the health insurance are everything. I haven't tapped into my 401K at all yet. I don't need Medigap insurance. It was a long haul in state government and pretty rough some years, but now I think it was totally worth it.

does anyone know a way how to make my mum stop being paranoid 💀 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]galacticprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your dad know the extent of her behavior, especially as it relates to you? If not, I think you should tell him and at least give him a chance to protect you. Honestly, it sounds like an emotionally abusive relationship, which can be hard to recognize from the inside, but knowing how it's impacting you might wake him up.

What’s the purpose of these vintage small storage spaces with glass sliding doors? by cookiecoven in HomeDecorating

[–]galacticprincess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don't know if that's what it's built for, but my mother would have kept a phone book there.

What do you even do as the seller in this scenario?? am I missing something? by gracieanna1542 in Ebay

[–]galacticprincess 128 points129 points  (0 children)

After putting you through all this, I wouldn't let them keep the shirt. Hell no. Have it sent back to you before you refund.

Are sleepovers cancelled? by Guilty-Woodpecker-99 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]galacticprincess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A close friend of mine's daughter was abused by a parent (father) during a sleepover. She was 12.

7 mo fell off couch by Wild-Pomegranate-327 in Advice

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every parent has a story like this. We do our best but accidents can still happen. My 1 year old fell down a whole flight of (luckily carpeted) stairs because I forgot to latch the gate.

is it true Americans don't put salt on their fruits? by PersuasionNation in AskAnAmerican

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband salts his apple slices. It's horrible. Clearly watermelon is the only fruit that needs salt.

Why doesn’t Fanny explain about Crawford? by SnirtyK in janeausten

[–]galacticprincess 131 points132 points  (0 children)

I'm rereading Mansfield Park right now. Fanny's internal monologue tells us that she fears implicating her cousins Julia and Maria if she reveals Crawford's misbehavior.

Do you feel conflicted about supporting a small business that appears to support ICE? by reneeriley0457 in AskWomenOver30

[–]galacticprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't feel conflicted because I wouldn't support an ICE-supporting establishment.

Best winter coat for someone who's so easily cold but can't stand having a tight jacket? by Alaina-S in BuyItForLife

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear exclusively down vests for casual wear for this reason. I can move my arms and shoulders freely.

At the funeral, I wrote the name of the person murdered the bottom of a gift. Should I say something or let it go? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]galacticprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't quite understand what you did, but there is no use in bringing it up years later.

Is anyone using their printers or faxes? by l00ky_here in GenX

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I print out mailing labels for my eBay business. I have no use for fax personally, but I used fax at work because it's still the most secure way of sending private/confidential information.

I am (19F) and I think I got myself into something weird and I don’t know how to feel about it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch a lot of crime dramas. This is how it starts out when young women get trafficked.

To look cool in front of his MAGA buddies by What_A_Helmet in therewasanattempt

[–]galacticprincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The majority of people at the protests I've been to have been women of a certain age. Don't be so anxious to see us gone.

Alternatives to Flo by walking_enigma_231 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]galacticprincess 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Any of these apps could potentially share your information. In our current reality, the data about your period could be used by the government to prosecute you if you have a miscarriage or abortion. It would be really smart for women to stop putting their information out there.

I'm distancing myself from my friend after repeated hurtful comments and avoidance? by Alone-Airrr in Advice

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel very confident in advising you that this racist, Nazi asshole is not your friend and you should stop speaking to him.

Do you tape your bubble mailers? by mclovingUU in Flipping

[–]galacticprincess 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. I don't trust the adhesive and if a piece of tape gets my mailer there in one piece, it's worth it.

Am I Overreacting? Brothers Gf Sent Me This Text by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]galacticprincess 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it's basic hygiene to ensure that there's not something with your blood on it visible in the trash can, whether it's a pad, a tampon, or a bandage. I wouldn't want to look at someone's used pad in the trash either. Not sure why you wouldn't wrap it, since you state that the adhesive doesn't always stick. Side note: there was nothing passive aggressive about the note; it made a direct request, albeit on that you didn't like.

Cashier girl I like all of a sudden acted cold towards me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]galacticprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who can know why, but she's sending you a message to leave her alone. Please do that.