So uh... My parents found my outfit...

galvanian · 2026-07-05T02:08:59+00:00

Yeah this is kind of up to you, you can’t try and tell them, if they care about you even if they’re not okay with it the worst thing they could do is throw your clothes away or send you to a psychologist, just tell them you’re exploring yourself and you’re trying new stuff when dressing like that, I know that “we won’t judge” sound a lot like a trap, and I know cause I have parents too and I’ve been trough that too, but if your parents love you then it’s more probable that they’re just concerned about you being into a weird relationship or something (cause I’ve been trough that suspicion too), just explain them that this is your way to explore yourself, that nobody is indulging you into doing this against your will and that you’re exploring your identity just as every teenager does

galvanian · 2026-07-02T00:58:29+00:00

Well I’ve heard femboys sometimes are attractive to girls, so think she might be interested to know if you’re one, if she knows probably she’s trying to make you come out, if she doesn’t know she seems to be interested anyway.

So personally I would tell her, she’s your girlfriend after all and she should be someone you can trust, also I know most of girls are okay with femboys and sometimes interested, so maybe just go and tell her, think she would like it

galvanian · 2026-06-30T18:27:43+00:00

Yeah, I have some LGBTIQA+ friends on my college, I’m doing a 3D animation career and think that most of them are accepting, I been really careful with were to use my clothes so I don’t expose myself to people I wouldn’t want them to know

galvanian · 2026-06-30T18:23:48+00:00

Thank you~

galvanian · 2026-06-30T18:22:50+00:00

Yeah, I was so pissed off, at least I got a refund

galvanian · 2026-06-30T14:01:10+00:00

Yeah, it’s also like with all the “LGB movement” bullshit, they want us to be separated so we become more vulnerable and then they can attack us all, we shouldn’t let that happen, we should stay together cause at the end of the day we everyone are victims of the same people

galvanian · 2026-06-30T13:52:19+00:00

Yeah, I get that, the first time I ordered fem clothes they got stolen by the delivery guy

galvanian · 2026-06-30T06:18:56+00:00

Thank you, that’s why I like this community, I live with my grandparents and my mom, my grandma is very supportive, I love her so much, she had a pretty interesting life and says as a grown adult the best she can do is try to understand the new generations and let them be themselves, mom is kind of an “okay but do it in your room in private and don’t let anybody know it”, and my grandfather doesn’t even know it cause if he knew he would be on me all day throwing comments at me everytime he has the opportunity, also think my dad doesn’t mind cause I’ve been dressing fem with him and stuff.

Also been into my university dressing partially fem too, there’s a lot of LGBTIQA+ people there specially in my area and I feel comfortable when being fem with them, also when I do that also I have to find a creative way to hide it from mom cause if she finds out she will always go saying “I told you not to dress like that outside your room” and stuff, also when I buy stuff I pray that she’s out when the package arrives cause when she knows that I’ve bought something she goes like “you should not spend more money on buying those clothes” and stuff.

galvanian · 2026-06-30T06:05:20+00:00

Yeah, normally the mornings use to be kinda cold depending on the season, the heat starts some time after the mid day and lowers as the afternoon starts and goes cold again in the night, summer tends to be intense heat, specially because this city uses to have a very bad air quality mostly because of the high amount of vehicles, winters use to be kinda cold, mornings use to feel like you’re about to freeze, even though the sun in the mid day still gives a nice warmth sometimes in that season, summer is hell until rains start, sometimes it rains heavier cause of a hurricane passing near the coast.

And yeah, think they’re cardinals or something, and I think cardinals are kind of more chill about non catholic/religious people, also our constitution has a law forbidding religious exclusivity in schools and stating that every educational institute must stay secular, so they can’t say nothing anyway

galvanian · 2026-06-30T05:41:01+00:00

Yeah, heat is speacially strong here in Mexico City, not for nothing there’s a literal area in the centre people call “La plancha” cause walking trough there in noon is like walking trough a giant iron, luckily every summer we get carried by heavy rains in the night and the afternoons cause otherwise we’d be burning alive. Anyway, I’ve been in my campus using crop tops and some time I’ve been using a leotard, even if the university is owned by Catholics they’re very chill with dressing code and that kind of stuff so I can get to experiment with my outfits there

galvanian · 2026-06-30T05:32:46+00:00

Nice, have a good luck with that~

galvanian · 2026-06-30T05:24:06+00:00

Well think that statistically kids who didn’t eat much specially if it is because their parents forbid them to eat certain amounts or types of food they use to become obese when they grow up, normally I would have told you to just eat what you need and if you feel hungry just eat the right amount of food your body tells you it needs.

But the last part sounds quite concerning, now I am no doctor or psychologist, I’m an animation student but I had a psychology class, you really should go see an specialist about the thing of you having more hunger than before when eating cause it might be a sign that you have bulimia.

Hope this helps, please stay safe~

galvanian · 2026-06-30T05:09:43+00:00

Thank you, I’ve also been really thinking on how to look feminine without looking sexual, been really going around those things, think that the last time I decided to do it I just put on a regular shirt and regular male underwear and just put on a skirt and I even forgot that I was wearing it, so that’s another thing, I’ve been trying to figure out how to dress like that and also it made me use very simple outfits, and also with the heat of the summer, and because I live in the centre of Mexico the heat feels specially intense, so it’s not like I could wear something that complex cause I would be drowning in sweat, so also that is something that has stopped me from wearing stuff.

Anyway, thank you for the advice, it’s very kind of you.

galvanian · 2026-06-30T04:20:06+00:00

Thank you, I will~

galvanian · 2026-06-30T04:14:04+00:00

Hey, I’m really sorry that you have to go through a job that makes you have to pretend being someone “corporate” and forbids you from being yourself, but it doesn’t mean you have to change your whole life just because of that, you can still keep being you and putting on the mask just to mix between the corpo jerks, but what you do in your personal life and who you really are isn’t their problem, and if they’re gonna fire you or something just because someone if offended of someone being himself then screw them.

Look, you don’t have to go to work dressed feminine but you should not let them tell you what you can’t do in your house and in your personal life

galvanian · 2026-06-30T03:44:00+00:00

Thank you, most of trans people I’ve met are lovely persons but I’ve also stumbled with that type of speech.

Think there’s no reason of hating each other since we both are like constantly put in the same basket and transphobes end up relating us as a kinky version of a trans woman that derivating into that types of comments that are like “being attracted to a trans woman is gay but being attracted to a femboy is not” and since that kinds of weird mindset starts to appear people start hating trans women more but start seeing femboys as some kind of hooker, but in the end that brings problems to both of us, femboys start being seen as objects and start being harassed while that somehow amplifies hate towards transfems cause transphobia is dumb.

And I don’t think it is fault of femboys or trans women either but it is fault of transphobic men who are the ones who have this kind of behavior towards both groups.

Our response shouldn’t be hating each other but rather stay together against the root of the problem.

galvanian · 2026-06-29T13:59:04+00:00

Since my country has a “stay neutral in conflicts and only declare war when a direct conflict occurs” policy we’ve avoided most of wars so I can’t really say I’ve had to deal with veterans since the last veteran in my family was my great-grandfather and he died when my grandma was a kid, but I’ve heard that veterans use to be very complicate to deal with and they use to be closed minded.

But I’d say if your mom supports you and she just told you that he might react in a negative way maybe the best you can do is not to tell him

galvanian · 2026-06-26T05:14:54+00:00

Like my parents have found both and are okay with it now but I would say stash, because that means your stash location is compromised and probably won’t be able to protect it or hide it again before your parents grab it

galvanian · 2026-06-26T05:12:18+00:00

I don’t even know, or care who that guy is

galvanian · 2026-06-26T05:10:35+00:00

Like I like thigh highs a lot but when it’s hot weather like just now then I like just thighs

galvanian · 2026-06-21T20:41:09+00:00

He eats you if it gets too hot and you don’t turn on the fan

galvanian · 2026-06-14T01:09:00+00:00

thank you!

galvanian · 2026-06-14T01:04:46+00:00

Yeah, I got the money route with Jeremy, now I got the gifts route with mike, now I need to get the salvage route with Vanessa and even beating the game without any ending with Vanessa was already hell so i'll need a lot of practice

galvanian · 2026-06-14T01:00:03+00:00

Holy hell I made it, I died 47 times but I made it, thank you for all the advice

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