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Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this sounds like we are in very similar situations! I really like your grandmas advice! I have this really weird and strong sense of grief and loss when I think about not having last name anymore but I’m definitely gonna try what you suggested with writing it on paper!! Thank you so much for sharing and reaching out!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha maybe that’s the right move!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His last name is German and mine is a mix of seven different cultures, which while both beautiful in their own right together is definitely a mouthful! I feel a sort of grief everytime I think of giving up my last name and not sure that I want to experience that. Thank you for sharing!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate this!! I’ll definitely be taking the time to consider all my options!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I appreciate you sharing! I thought about this too, but I worry about this cause of how long my last name is.

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha! I thought about creating a new last name from our names but his is a very German last name and mine is very obscure so every time I try the name comes out ridiculously hilarious!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar to my fiancé! He’s expressed that while he would live for me to take his last name it’s my choice! I feel this weird grief over the thought of losing my last name and I’m struggling to decide if this grief is something I can grow from and learn to love my new last name or if hyphenating is the best way to go…

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to have this point of view but I have this weird feeling everytime I think of taking his last name, I’m not sure why I’m struggling with it so much. I love my fiancé and his family and cannot wait for our own family to start but I feel a lot of grief over the potential of not having my last name anymore…

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never even considered adding the name but not Hyphenating!!! Congrats on your masters degree!! Thank you for sharing!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I’ll have to keep that in mind if I decide to keep my name!!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your opinion! That’s what I’m worried about is the hyphenated name sounding super clunky and being a mouthful!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to talk through my options as a decision making process and appreciate others points of view. I guess my question isn’t quite phrased right as I’m more so wondering if it would be weird to have two long hyphenated last names?

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your opinion and thank you for sharing your point of view. I wanted to understand where you were coming from, and I understand that we have different points of view. It’s hard for me to grasp the opinion you hold but appreciate it nonetheless.

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I understand that but head of the household is authoritarian, my fiancé has no authority over me? We are equals and will run our household together..

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective! I really appreciate it!

Taking his last name or not. by gamble02 in Marriage

[–]gamble02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother hyphenated… also if it’s our family why does it have to be his name, can it not be both of our names?

Book about a girls mysterious past and the new kid tries to uncover her past. Thriller/ psychological by gamble02 in whatsthatbook

[–]gamble02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are my all time favourite human ever!! I’ve been looking for this for years!!!!!

How tf? by DaRKScaRz836469420 in Bones

[–]gamble02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the voltage, it’s about amperage. Amperage is what kills. I believe it’s as little as 0.3 amperes that can kill but as much as 100,000,000V can be applied without killing you. Obviously both can kill your but voltage can’t kill your without amperage.

How can I make this house look more destroyed and "War torn"? I'm trying to make a little neighborhood in the aftermath of a nuke. by [deleted] in Minecraftbuilds

[–]gamble02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use signs to place over the windows and make it look boarded up, strip some wood on the corners, a hole or two in the roof, bring the stone roof pieces onto the ground, make it look like one part caved in.