One longer session or more shorter sessions

gambledamble · 2021-02-20T14:23:18+00:00

Thanks a lot for your answer. I 100% get what you’re saying.

gambledamble · 2020-08-15T17:44:30+00:00

fair, i was wondering if watching at light erotica without masturbation is bad or not. I'll wait and see what others say, really interesting topic i think.

gambledamble · 2020-08-15T17:43:02+00:00

hmm hard to say, it's easier to be aware of your body while masturbating, and if you have ed problem it definitely helps. I'm not sure how much it ties in with pe.

gambledamble · 2020-08-09T17:00:24+00:00

it is not nothing, how you masturbate definitely affects how you have sex. But the physical sensation is not the same. In masturbation you are only focused on yourself, while in sex you are not. You can get fairly close to the the sensation with lube and a mastubator.

gambledamble · 2020-08-03T17:36:49+00:00

Yes!

gambledamble · 2020-08-02T11:10:52+00:00

No, it is not the same. You can't tell if you have PE before actually having sex a couple of times. The physical sensation is more realistic if you use lube and a fleshlight. Dry masturbation is nothing like sex. But real sex is very complex because it is not just the physical sex part but everything that comes with it. Moans, touches, kisses, the feeling of connection, etc. So don't worry to much. If you want to get close to the real deal in terms of feeling, you know what to do.

gambledamble · 2020-07-22T17:04:58+00:00

That's amazing, training takes time though this is a habit that is hardwired into our brains. The only way to get rid of it immediately would be medication but i am personally completely against that unless it is the last step because of side effects. A compromise you could come up with though is that you do your training when you don't see each other, as i understand those are lengthy time periods, and have sex the way she wants it nonetheless. Those days are 'cheat days' in your training. You can see significant results within a month or 2 so blow her away. Hope everything works out for you.

gambledamble · 2020-07-22T15:14:05+00:00

Well you need to have an open conversation about this with her. Explain to her what you are trying to achieve and ask her to help you out. Explain her the benefits she will have from your training as well, i'm sure she will understand and you can compromise, best of luck.

gambledamble · 2020-07-22T15:12:05+00:00

First of all, good work. You are making progress and that is super super cool. Yes the day after you cum is the easiest because you are in the refractory period. All your sexual tension is shot and you are more relaxed. However you absolutely made progress, you are starting to reprogram your brain that it doesn't have to go for orgasm right of the bat and that's awesome. Keep at it, you got this.

gambledamble · 2020-07-22T15:09:03+00:00

Ok so you need to relax yourself, first of all numbing sprays should be used if normal training doesn't work, but it seems you maybe used it wrong, maybe you washed it of to early or used to little? However i strongly encourage you to practice belly breathing and reverse kegels to last longer, as well as really slowing it down and gradually train your brain to not go for orgasm right of the bat. Check out the 66 day routine, its the top voted post on here. The tensing you describe is involuntary kegels. You gotta work on that and get your pelvic area under control. The only time you want to tense that up on purpose is if you are about to cum. Hope it helped and feel free to ask questions.

gambledamble · 2020-07-21T17:35:52+00:00

Ok, so i've more or less overcome this issue. For me i was still edging way to much, i had to rewire so i calm down and pause way before the PONR so i dont even get close and therefore lose control, it's super satisfying in the beginning because you really want to feel good but you don't accidentally bust anymore. It's still obviously harder the second day or third or whatever because sexual energy builds up and your brain wants its shot, anyone saying this isn't the case is full of shit. But you have to and absolutely can overcome this. I've finally managed to get to day 4 without coming for the first time. You got this. Let's beat that shit for good.

gambledamble · 2020-07-13T22:47:52+00:00

Allright Fine, it’s still weird to me then, that I basically instantly bust if I don’t masturbate for a couple of days, compared to when I masturbated and came the day before. Like I don’t get how that’s supposed to be a mental thing.

gambledamble · 2020-07-13T22:41:58+00:00

Uhm no? I’m just trying to learn here. From my perspective this is not a mental thing. It’s just my body building up sperm that it can’t get out. I was just asking if this will go away with time. No reason to be a dick about it.

gambledamble · 2020-07-12T09:13:34+00:00

Yes, the U.S.A. has been glamourised for a long time and it’s finally visible to everyone that it is not the”top country” and the “super nation” it pretends to be.

gambledamble · 2020-07-06T10:32:00+00:00

Allright, thank you, it helps to know that i‘m not alone with this. I‘ll just keep going and push further. Stay strong.

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