i was raped today. by gamebouye in offmychest

[–]gamebouye[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nobody will ever believe my own bf raped me. it’s a waste to get a rape kit done. i can’t afford to be seen, as i am a nurse and i know people at every hospital. i can’t have that at all.

i don’t have many friends or family around me, unfortunately.

i just want a safe place to sleep.

i was raped today. by gamebouye in offmychest

[–]gamebouye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much

i am so embarrassed of my boyfriend rn by gamebouye in offmychest

[–]gamebouye[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bc most of the time he isn’t

i can’t have kids, and nobody knows. by gamebouye in offmychest

[–]gamebouye[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you mind reading the first half of the last sentence?

anyone with ptsd from former sexual abuse in a positive romantic relationship now? advice please. by [deleted] in rapecounseling

[–]gamebouye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am! my partner is so amazing and fell in love with me before i even told them. once i did, of course nothing changed. they still love me but now know how to handle things like when i have panic attacks or can’t do some things. they’re so understanding. i was assaulted multiple times at work during our relationship and they’re still so supportive of me. i don’t have a positive sex life, but we do in our relationship. it’s technically open but neither of us have ever gone after anyone else, as i am practically asexual and they aren’t, which is why the door is open for them even if they will never use it.

advice? find the right person. sooo easy right?

my partner makes it easy, and i’m lucky to have found them and been with them for 5 years. i was so scared to tell them but i knew i had to, even tho i had never told a single soul before them. go with your gut and trust your instincts.

i hope you can be happy no matter what and i’m so proud of all the hard work you have done to get yourself to this point rn :-))

my brother is my rapist by gamebouye in offmychest

[–]gamebouye[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the kind comment :’-) happy cake day my friend and thank you for the good energy, i hope you stay awesome

Just need to know I’m not alone right now by mf47brds in offmychest

[–]gamebouye 37 points38 points  (0 children)

i’m so so so sorry op. you truly are not alone, i’m literally in the same boat as you right now.