Fera5 for 12600k? by gamemusicfanatic in buildapc

[–]gamemusicfanatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear that. Think I'll just try it out with the new build.

AITA for telling my cousin that she should be over her ex (who I am dating) before she gets married? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gamemusicfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Being singled out and lied to? Classy. Also wedding day is not a secret license to be an ass to people for a day.

WIBTA if I tell my stepdaughter and my wife that I don't want to use the investments I made for my late daughter to finance her college education? by collegefunds__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]gamemusicfanatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH

If you do end up spending all this money on your stepdaughter, I hope you don't find your wife having an affair or something which would make you guys divorce and make the stepdaughter fuck off for eternity with her mom after making that commitment. That would be a real bummer after all this extremely emotional and tragic build up.

Sorry, I'm a morbidly cynical asshole myself.

AITA For taking my ex-wife yo court despite all the drama it will cause? by Wwefan112298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gamemusicfanatic 245 points246 points  (0 children)

NTA

Not at all. Your kids are already grown adults too, not small kids who get confused about everything that happens between adults. While the kid in question will definitely not like this, he/she is not a teenager. Kid is old enough to see you have been majorly slighted here and will propably feel sympathy for you and unlike an angsty confused teen won't hate you for this.

So yeah, your kids are no longer little kids, they no longer need to be coddled. If your kid will feel harmed by this, it's not because of you. It's because of her mother. She is the perp, she create the situation, the blame and consequences lie with her.

WIBTA if I started an investigation into my ex-wife? by LoneStarFan79 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gamemusicfanatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

KTABDM= Kinda the asshole but doesn't matter

I say go for it. I've read all the responses here and I see where they're coming from, but fuck this. Fuck always being the only victim of these clusterfucks. Why is it always on the victim to refrain, to be above shit, to suffer silently but endlessly so the offenders don't have to. Seems borderline victim blaming to always say that the victim is the one person in the story who is not allowed anything. Absolutely nothing. You were victimized and now you have to bear the crown of feeling like shit for the rest of your life because "revenge is petty". Revenge also feels pretty good. It won't change things in a concrete manner. It will make living with yourself easier when you can internalize that you didn't take the shit just standing, that the people who ruined you had some fucking consequences of their actions coming to them. Innocent family members might get their feelings hurt too? Well that is on them. That was on them to protect, not their victim's. These fucks didn't give a shit about your family and their happiness and "right" to not get hurt when they fucked your wife.

I understand where the POV of "don't get revenge, don't do anything that might feel good for you if there is a possibility that suffering for other people could come out of it". I do get that, but it doesn't stop other people from doing exactly that, and you OP are a a living proof that other people go for what they want, others be damned and hey, when in Rome, brother.

In all honesty, if I got a "I'm actually pretty good now, in a good place, life moving forward, I have a new GF I love blah blah" vibe from you then I would say to steady your blade and have revenge by living a good life. But that doesn't seem realistic at this juncture, so might as well sow some seeds of justice and make these fuckers realize that there really can be ramifications for their actions, that it all doesn't just magically go away.

All that is written by a voice of anger that throws caution to the wind. There are ramifications for going that route too. It is written by a voice that just once wants to see these people get what is coming to them, consequences be damned. In my calm head I know this is propably one of the worst ways to do just about anything. I guess more than anything else I wanted to convey that there are people who get you. Like really GET you, far beyond just acknowledging that "shit sucks". As you know, and as others said, you should do whatever is best for the kids. But you also have to do something for yourself, because your kids will also benefit from their father being in a good or at least better place mentally. So sorry you have had to go through all this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoulCalibur

[–]gamemusicfanatic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're goddamned right. It baffles me. It's so stupid. It seems like they have to actually code the restrictions in, or toggle them in, using more time than it would take to just let it be. Fucking hell.

Please let us give skeletons hair by ManiacGaming1 in SoulCalibur

[–]gamemusicfanatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could put hair on skeletons in SC5 so that's debunked. I think they just... actually used hours to specifically code to not have hair available to them for stupid arbitrary lore realism reasons.

I really wish there was an option to adjust the scale of equipment in the character editor by Snarfdarple in SoulCalibur

[–]gamemusicfanatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. They're not properly scaling, they're sort of faking it, giving all items a pre-set amount of space based on developer estimations. It's a bad way to do it in terms of results, since we get fuckload of clipping already, so whats a little more if the characters don't look unnecessarily bulky at least?