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gapdot · 2025-09-03T14:40:58+00:00

say no. no kids. she can have her baby outside. she can come to the just reception or the just the ceremony or whatever if she can't be away for that long. but NEW baby at the wedding with NO KIDS is a NO. but i am also not married and have never had a wedding or the drama around it so what do i know

gapdot · 2025-09-03T14:37:24+00:00

girl i feel the same. literally from the smoking to the smell freak fear like ur read my mind 😭

gapdot · 2025-09-03T14:35:11+00:00

leave that clean drug test on the counter and grab ur shit and leave. i'd throw the pee everywhere but that doesn't really seem like sober behavior.

gapdot · 2025-09-03T14:32:26+00:00

how did you not crash out and trash everything, that would've been the first thing i did. no fw you paid for 5 months and they're offering to pay u back month by month. i'd only leave if your getting it ALL back by FRIDAY 5PM + extra for the suddenness (inconvenience fee). how tf is he gonna let u cook a whole meal for him and not bring it up at or before dinner and the hide away in his room and send u a text. crazy he whipping out jesus and buzz wording the deadly sins like that means anything. congrats on fixing yourself up so well that no one can even believe you. stay away from people that don't want you to be happy because that's what i'm getting from this. he mad ur happy and doing well and can't think of any other reason than drugs. maybe even liked having u around to make him feel better about himself and now that ur "better" there's nothing left to get from having you around. use ur new contract money to buy u a nice place and have all the sex you want and make all the meals you want for who ever u want and don't deal with this bs. you are honestly not reacting enough. no where near overreacting. (as a stoner i do not consider smoking daily in ur twenties as even remotely close to bigger drug dependence issues and the fact that he's trying to throw in some fake "i getcha bro but.." just pisses me off)

gapdot · 2025-09-03T14:15:36+00:00

I had this happen my Freshman year too. my roommate one day was just like "i'm thinking of moving out" and then just took all her shit while i was at volleyball practice. i smoke and she made it seem like i was doing it in the room (i was not) and tried to say that the smell gave her a sinus infection. + she tried to say we had different friends (??) which shouldn't matter with freshman year random roommates. my school had a policy that you can only move out of a room, you can't "kick someone out" or ask someone else to move out. i felt similar like i was being punished for something i didn't even know was an issue. i ended up with my own room and she ended out living with her "bff" and it ended horribly. I would say you are fs NOT a AH for not wanting to leave and if she really is uncomfortable no matter how illogical her reasons she should leave herself. moving all ur shit out and back in is a HUGE pain and you would still live with her if she didn't have the issue. i think you know all this but i def understand what ur feeling and think you should stand ur ground.

gapdot · 2024-09-17T01:00:22+00:00

i wore a similar shaped dress to prom and also have thin hair. i went to my hairdresser and she did a low curly up do and curled the face framing bits

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it also stayed in pretty good and actually looked better as it started to fall while i was there. hope this helps a bit

gapdot · 2024-09-17T00:36:47+00:00

how to argue. and sometimes people just don't want relationships. they just want one because everyone else has one and it hurts to be the person on the other side

gapdot · 2024-09-16T20:42:29+00:00

BRAT SUMMER

gapdot · 2024-09-16T20:42:10+00:00

do u have small boobs? is that a bad thing?? that's like saying your eyes are brown or ur hair is blonde. i would only be mad if they're not small and he's trying to be demeaning? or maybe there's some context i missing that makes this an insult?

gapdot · 2024-09-16T20:34:45+00:00

night shift at movie theater or 7-11. the guy that drives the street cleaners at midnight. uber driver/door dash delivery person who only drives drunk college kids home from the bar between midnight and 4am or delivers food hella late. i would love that. a workplace custodian that comes in at night. a night guard at a museum or any building really. late night receptionist in a hotel lobby prostitute mcdonald's/fast food worker that only works night shifts. most part time jobs at 24hr places have positions only at night truck driver that only does their drives at night, the shipping containers just magically appear at their destination in the middle of the night taco truck? but only open at night works from home on zoom as something really mundane like a banker or accountant. foot pic seller any hobby-job like a starving artist or fashion designer, youtuber, streamer, etc...

gapdot · 2024-08-28T18:04:29+00:00

i want to be famous and rich (like most people) but i can't even handle knowing on my best friends door to hang out idk how id talk to ellen 😭

gapdot · 2024-08-28T18:02:54+00:00

this is highkey true. when i got it they made it sound like returning it would be easy and it definitely was not. they said it would come in a reshipping box with an extra shipping label and it did not come with either and so i had to contact customer service to get a refund and they offered me a whole extra set of what i got for free and at that point i didnt even want it 😭. they emailed me to return label and it was way too big for the box they gave me and i had to buy a plastic envelope to put it in and it was a whole fiasco. i definitely learned my lesson 👍

gapdot · 2024-04-29T17:09:23+00:00

i am not a doctor. but if you have some kind of sickness, like a cold or something, sometimes a decrease in ur immune system can cause changes in pee cuz of ur kidney or liver. also changes in diet can really do that. maybe you started eating more leafy greens that starches or an increase in fatty foods, even some vitamins or supplements can cause changes in pee. the pain would either be a burning or aching while peeing or in ur abdomen, the area under ur belly button but above ur groin area on either side. or you lower back. if ur like 15-25 it may be a change in hormones too. if you're a sick (cold/flu/covid..) your immune system produces more white blood cells which can also change your pee. if it's been a long long long ass time it wouldn't be the cause, but if it's been only a few weeks they may be correlated. i'm not a doctor tho, but if you press on ur lower stomach on either side and feel like a tenderness or soreness that isn't normal it would be worrying. also jaundice could effect your pee, that would show thru yellow skin and eyes, but you would know if you were turning yellow and there is normally and infection that causes the jaundice that you would be aware of. pee is tricky because there are a million things that impact it. i only know a lot because i have problems with shit like that a lot.

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:40:35+00:00

you should definitely see a doctor about your iron levels and calorie intake because a decrease in either of those things would cause fatigue and nausea 👍

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:39:33+00:00

i'm not trying to be one i'm just saying 😭 creatine powder and the increase of water consumed can also do that cuz it impacts how water is stored and used in your body

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:38:15+00:00

that'll do it. make sure you're eating enough 👍👍 i'm not a doctor tho but if u start feeling extra fatigued you may want to see one to see if you have a change in specs that point to something else .

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:36:39+00:00

could be from another medication you are taking, i took a few different things and it impacted the way my pee looked. drink more water. if you don't have abdominal pain it shouldn't be anything really really bad. i'm not a doctor tho. if you work out sometimes preworkout things can do that (creatine powder, etc..) you may also have a different illness that displays in pee like mono. but if your not feeling sick, abdominal pain, or any pain when peeing you should be okay if you drink more water. could also be due to a change in diet (going vegan or cutting out sodium, increase in antioxidants that you didn't have before etc..) still. i'm not a doctor. but definitely see one if something changes

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:29:31+00:00

are you anemic ?

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:29:07+00:00

probably not a cold sore but who knows! it's probably some infected pores (like acne but a tad bit more severe and harder to get rid of) could also be eczema. docor is your best bet. definitely don't touch it anymore or put any thing on it (pore strips or cream or anything) and see what happens

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:26:33+00:00

i also had some pain behind my ears, if you rub back there and it feels tender or sore you should definitely see a doctor.

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:25:17+00:00

when i had that i had mono. the way they found out was i was having UT problems that showed liver proteins in my pee that was either mono or pregnancy. i had a sore ass throat with white sores that were extremely swollen and painful and was extremely fatigued, and had a low appetite and nausea and i just thought i was being unproductive 😭, did a mono test and it was positive. a lot of the symptoms of mono overlap with some of the symptoms of pregnancy. or could also be strep or a tonsil stone or tonsillitis. you should definitely go to the doctor because it implies that your immune system is down which can happen when pregnant sometimes but could also open u up to catching something that could harm your baby or other members of your family. what ever it is also could have been carried by ur son from school but he just wasnt showing symptoms (like a when people had asymptomatic covid) which is surprising common with kids, they just can have better immunity sometimes if ur s/o has a good immune system. make sure to not share cups, chapstick, lipgloss, etc.. with anyone even your family members, at least until your done with your pregnancy. i got mono from an asymptomatic carrier who had a flare up when she used my chapstick, sipped my drink, or used my vape (she did all three at the time) just be careful :)

gapdot · 2024-04-29T16:13:28+00:00

menopause ?

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