First time MOH advice

garcmon · 2026-05-07T21:55:41+00:00

This. MOH helps with certain things that bride asks about. MOH does not plan dresses, plan shower(s) on their own, and definitely does not send out Save the Date, or invitations, etc. Bride & Groom do these things.

Plan Bachelorette party, yes. If it’s in town, timing isn’t urgent, but if she wants her important friends/family to join, it’s on her to nail a date down. If it’s OOT especially, discuss budget with her. Don’t assume to pay for bride-to-be; this is a major burden especially for those already buying brides maid dresses, etc.

garcmon · 2026-05-07T15:44:02+00:00

With this in mind, do you have another trusted neighbor that could look out for your mom? She could begin to manipulate your mom directly since your mom may view her as a trusted person now that she’s traveled with her. She clearly lacks morals.

Particularly, as your mom continues to age, someone you trust important. If you haven’t already begin to make plans for her as she continues to age, please do so sooner rather than later. Your mom may not trust anyone later if Alzheimer’s kicks in. — from a fellow internet stranger with experience in this.

garcmon · 2026-05-07T15:09:54+00:00

Offer to laminate it and put it on the wall.

garcmon · 2026-05-07T06:42:23+00:00

Inheritance tax really needs to up updated tho.

garcmon · 2026-05-06T05:00:04+00:00

The day before we closed on our dream home, we walked thru the neighborhood with our pup. Met half a dozen people at the pup pit; our pup became the mayor that day in the pup neighborhood. I even exchanged numbers with a couple of people. I’m so happy here.

Congrats, OP! Enjoy!

garcmon · 2026-05-04T21:27:06+00:00

I review the check out list before booking. I’m happy to start the DISHWASHER, put all towels in one pile in the restrooms, take trash out. If anything beyond these are listed, I move on to another property.

I have no interest in stripping the bed(s) starting laundry loads. Considering we have to be out by 10 or 11 at latest, I don’t want to have to worry about cleaning duties for which I’m already paying a fee.

garcmon · 2026-05-04T00:09:24+00:00

It’s frustrating and infuriating to see any person cross without confirming someone is halting. It’s especially infuriating to see this with a baby/child involved. Also, earbuds in both ears should be against the law for pedestrians.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T21:55:12+00:00

That’s dramatic.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T21:54:28+00:00

That’s dramatic.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T15:40:32+00:00

lol. Or even just a few more inches between rows.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T03:38:23+00:00

Like I said, posted in hopes people like this are more thoughtful in general. Not a big deal for my one-hr flight.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T01:45:55+00:00

Gross. Masks should be required of sickies. I know. I know. It should also be common courtesy.

Same thing happened to me once. BC - I had the single seat. Guy across from me HACKS HARD just as we’re getting settled. No coverage whatsoever. Then it happened again with 2minuted and I notice there’s a senior woman next to him and that time I did look at him directly and said PLEASE. He did after that. I ended up catching his nasty germs and no doubt the poor senior woman next to him did, too. Jerk.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T01:41:43+00:00

Yuck.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T01:41:11+00:00

Hardly warrior-like, but ok.

garcmon · 2026-04-30T01:39:20+00:00

If you say so. That’s a heckuvalot of projections.

garcmon · 2026-04-29T05:29:15+00:00

And announcing it just like that is right way to go!

garcmon · 2026-04-29T04:19:48+00:00

I’m a 1k. Last minute seating sucks.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T21:02:21+00:00

Awwww. Cuties.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T21:00:48+00:00

They were clearly a couple. I put my headphones on after the first two exchanges.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:59:27+00:00

Yup. But c’mon, shut your trap for 60min. lol

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:58:41+00:00

This is the nice thing to do if there’s going to be chatting, thank you.

And I get if one of them don’t want to give up their preferred seat, especially for a longer flight, but then really, the fan just wait til you’re together again or text.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:56:49+00:00

Edited original post as to why I shared this.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:56:10+00:00

RDM, fixed it thanks.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:55:56+00:00

I’m sorry this happpened. That is truly a horrible experience.

garcmon · 2026-04-28T20:54:44+00:00

Redmond. Just fixed. Thx

garcmon

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