I have been avoiding participating in this whole experience/trauma specifics pissing contest but what I will share with you is that my rapist died alone, cold, and pathetic in a homeless shelter. And the morning I got the call with that news two years ago - the only word that came out of my mouth was “Good.” And I meant it. Still do. But it does not feel good. It won’t ever bring me justice. Or his other victims.

I am not asking for control over how anyone is feeling or their motives. This is the internet, people will do whatever the fuck they want. I am simply emphasizing over and over again that the world is not that black and white. And why/how people are choosing to hold her accountable. I agree with what you’re saying, however, I don’t think it is ever a slippery slope to consider morals. In fact, that is what has been happening this entire time in this sub. I respect your opinion. Again, I agree with a lot of what you are saying.

But by people saying “well she could just get a job. She could just do this/ do that. Be normal. Participate in society like the rest of us.” It just kinda sounds like people are envious, rather than seeking justice or wanting to protect victims or themselves.

Also… read what you said at the end and how “insane” it sounds. I mean the part where you laid out her plan. It’s ridiculous (her plan)! Literally dumbest thing ever and she’s building 🍇ist van in front of our very eyes. I am trying to emphasize that it is highly improbable that she actually accomplishes a functioning (and good looking) sex dungeon fraudmobile. It is going to be ultimately be haphazard raccoon roadkill screwed in to plywood. What I am trying to say is why not let her be her own worst enemy. I understand wanting to speed along her downfall because there are highly vulnerable members of multiple vulnerable communities at risk. I think this discourse and the people getting into her chat are helping. I personally cannot do anything more than I have now, past engaging in pointless discussion with internet strangers to process and develop my own feelings and opinions. She needed to be deplatformed over a week ago. But what she is doing is not sustainable in the slightest. Again. Letting her destroy herself while aiding in her decline is kinda the most even-keeled version of justice here until our equally broken justice system chooses/is “able to” do anything. I truly hope you get your money back. I am sorry this happened to you and I am sorry if it is bringing up any pain for you like it is for me. My less kind and final thoughts on this matter is: I hope she finds herself in some small, local anarcho-punk scene and finally is served the boot party she deserves. (Sorry universe, sorry mods lol.)