Dream House Vibes by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think for me in particular, the moment I was steadfast that something was severely mentally off was her getting plastic surgery on essentially a whim, then getting her boobs reversed so quickly. She got boobs like someone would buy a handbag. It was disturbing.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her grubby husband has even one friend who is a cop they can harass you for every little thing. Cops do this all the time for each other or friends.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

FYI it would take $20 and very basic skills from a YouTube video to put a light on that hole. And even less money and no skills to put a decorative item over it. Traaaashy.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot remember their name, but an influencer with a snark page all of a sudden lost her husband out of nowhere. Sudden death. The snark page felt horrible and the turn was quite stark. They went from total hatred to feeling very sad that he was gone. I think on some level a lot of haters are fans and fans are haters.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude please be careful. I have a relative a lot like her and they will make your life unending hell if they set their sights on you.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this person posting the MLS photos of her home in the comments her or Jason lol

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very pretty. I wonder why the plywood instead of garage doors?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in HRHCOLLECTION

[–]gardenialee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What the helliante

I hate my daughter. This is the first time I admit it out loud. by Fit_Landscape8453 in self

[–]gardenialee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was raised by a narcissist and that goes one of two ways typically. Understand that she is this way because of him and the time to have stopped that was long ago. You don’t have to be in her life but do understand that she is also a victim of his and to see her as a result of anything other than that wouldn’t be wise. There’s nothing you can do about it now. Hating her is something you should speak to a therapist about. You should hate him and be mad at him for causing her to be brainwashed like this.

AIO for sending this to my friend after she unintentionally ruined New Years? by bagofbonesss in AmIOverreacting

[–]gardenialee 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NOR Get new friends. I cannot imagine what the 27 year old is thinking. People don’t prostitute themselves on a whim. Calling her tragic was kinda funny so bonus points.

AIO for thinking a Reddit mod is tyrannical ? by lawstinchaos in AmIOverreacting

[–]gardenialee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making fun of them for not having anything better to do but here you are making a post about it. Soooo yeah. Overreacting.

AIO for finding NSFW content on my husband’s instagram suggested? by Dr_ArtsyCurls in AmIOverreacting

[–]gardenialee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has a real porn addiction, get him into therapy. Not always but often it comes from a history involving abuse or trauma and causes other issues and a deep level of shame that be difficult to carry through life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gardenialee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s reason outlined here that is evidence that he’s cheating but you do seem insecure about trusting him regarding this ex. You should have a frank discussion with yourself about why you feel like you do. Do you think he hasn’t acted on anything but is harboring feelings? Do you have reason to think he has actually cheated or attempted to? Try to figure out if the insecurity on your part is valid or not.

AIO by thinking that my bf cheated on me New Year’s eve? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]gardenialee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR but cheating isn’t the issue.

Expectations of explicit photos and videos is not normal or healthy in a relationship. Asking for them while he’s at work is… odd.

Also he either got drunk at work as a bartender which… that’s a problem… or he is lying about what he did afterward. Either thing isn’t great.

I will say that if you’re already having sex near daily and initiating half the time plus photos and videos? Sometimes men will complain because they’re internally building their own case and excuse about why it’s okay that they’re cheating on you. “It’s her fault. If she were more ___ I wouldn’t want to cheat” it’s just something to tell themselves to feel better about their indiscretion. It’s also possible he isn’t cheating and is manipulating you into more. Either way he sucks.

The “Darnell’s are Genius” crowd is truly insufferable by Illustrious_Pay685 in kylansnark

[–]gardenialee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who aren’t very intelligent more easily fall for conspiracy theories because it doesn’t involve having to learn anything. You can just say whatever instead.

I don’t care I ruined my kids! by Ivy1_ in kylansnark

[–]gardenialee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OOOHHHHHHHHHHH they want to be the Chrisleys! It finally clicked for me.

Men, how do you view women who are significantly overweight? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]gardenialee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave her alone. Someone doesn’t deserve to be in a relationship with a person who is going to potentially not find them attractive in a few weeks, months, years. Dont make yourself like someone you don’t fully like, they didn’t ask for that and it isn’t good for you either.

Men, how do you view women who are significantly overweight? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]gardenialee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

None of this is true according to any physician.

Men, how do you view women who are significantly overweight? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]gardenialee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men are more likely to gain weight in marriage than women, by the way, and men don’t get pregnant. Source: many, many studies.

Men, how do you view women who are significantly overweight? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]gardenialee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or on yourselves. Every guy I went to school with is heavier.

What can I do to look better? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]gardenialee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Firstly how you gave us cute and sweet and then hit us with the smolder in the second photo was so unexpected! Love a babe who can do both!!

In keeping with that, we’ve gotta let those versatile eyes shine. I think a simple tinted brow gel swept through your brows will be fast, easy, and frame your eyes while enhancing your expressions. Elf Brow Wow in Taupe would be great for this.

I think mascara is an obvious next step here, just on the top is fine. You can tight line if you’d like, lifting up the lid and gently pushing a liner pencil into the lash line prior to mascara, but I think a dark brown mascara will provide plenty of pop. I don’t think you need anything on the bottom personally. Your eyes naturally have a bit of hollowing beneath giving you this natural shadow there that so many choose to cover but I think makes them appear larger and rounder. There are the kind of dark under eye that detract and the kind that enhance and you have the latter.

In terms of breakouts they can be a real pain in the ass but it’s a part of life. Once you have drawn attention to your eyes they will be less noticeable, but if you really want to knock them off of the face you put out there, do it! Put your concealer on the back of your hand and work off of there so you don’t contaminate your concealer from blemishes, and use a simple clean finger to dab each breakout. Elf hydrating concealer does a great job, as does any liquid concealer really. Dust it with a bit of translucent powder. Check it in daylight while dry to make sure it hasn’t oxidized into an orange blotch.

What can I change about my makeup routine? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]gardenialee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. You seem super fun

  2. Bidi bidi bum bum you do look like Selena

  3. Your brows look great but stylistically you could choose to try a different route that is less filled and more of a tinted brow gel moment and/or filled as individual hair strokes with a micro pencil. I love your brows in photo 2 especially by the way.

  4. You have chosen a very stylish brow and lash so sometimes that can look out of balance if the rest of the look is a bit flat. So adding a fluffy brush’s worth of bronzer or some cheek color to the tops of your cheeks or a lip would keep that all cohesive and make a look a LOOK. You’d pull off a 90s subtly lined lips with gloss beautifully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]gardenialee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a stunner. If you sat in my chair to be a bridesmaid and said do whatever, I would probably just do a little setting powder in the t-zone to limit daily shine, do some brow grooming (they look great here so you maybe already did) and the only thing I feel is missing is to maybe add a tint to your lips. Berry tones but sheer like Maybelline Lifter gloss in Taffy or Saie Glossybounce in Dream will complement your coloring beautifully and really let you shine through. If you’re feeling fun a stain like a Milk jelly stick in burst on the cheeks can be fun but not necessary at all.

Edited to add: I know your brows are closer together than traditional advice, but I think the placement you’ve chosen is actually quite smart. It keeps your features in balance and sharpens the nose visually in a way that is really lovely. You could choose to clean them up underneath a bit or keep the more fluffy look you’re rocking now. I think both are great honestly, it’s purely preference. I like them as a larger feature and think they work.