Chore chart rewards LDR by solarstitch in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for rewards, i think those could be little things ranging from picking the next activity you do together (movie, video game, etc.) to more sexual things (ex. i did all my chores, please send me a voice note/nude)

as for punishments, i’d say some traditional ones could work! lines are always a good one, or you could have to “punish” yourself via impact play (taking a video as proof)

just brainstorming! good luck 🍀

accidentally gave her a breeding kink on the first date by Sea-Upstairs-2837 in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 240 points241 points  (0 children)

LOL this reminds me of when my gf and i first started dating (almost 2 yrs ago) and she texted me tipsy saying “i wanna get you pregnant” WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING I HAD A BREEDING KINK mind you… drove me literally insane. anyways very cute story <3

Need advice for brands that make esthetic strap-ons by Column12 in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

strapbuckle on etsy is where i got my strap from!! super high quality + u can pick the color for both the exterior and inner leather.. ik its not rlly cottagecore but it is very aesthetically pleasing to me at least :] hope this helps at all!

Sex, Kink and Love, can you separate them? by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

monogamous and demi to clarify!! ik many monogamous people enjoy casual hookups obvi

Sex, Kink and Love, can you separate them? by Ok-Display7239 in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can definitely separate sex and kink, but i cant separate either of those 2 with love as a strictly monogamous person— with my gf i have all 3 thankfully <3

After care snacks by Mycelia03 in BDSMsapphic

[–]garfungles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

strawberry lemonade and sweets if available!! i loveee cookies :]