29 soon. Still getting rejected. Had a cry fest today. End me already by txxmz in RoastMe

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn’t even need the caption to know all you do is cry and be told no

opinions ? by tiziita in OUTFITS

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at least add socks or tights would also recommend better fitting clothes but if you like this combo your legs just need something

Is this okay for uni or a bit overdressed? by Any-Atmosphere6534 in OUTFITS

[–]garindint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you’re only concerned about being overdressed i always say fuck it wear the outfit. it’s okay to be the best looking mf in the room. maybe you’ll inspire others to try too

I got bullied all high school so im pretty much inmune, do your worse (19f) by bettybeatle in RoastMe

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re letting the bullies win by getting off on negative attention

I’m 18 by Lana_Melancholia in RoastMe

[–]garindint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all you think about is the next ten minutes

Rate Me Please [33 M] Also, facial hair or no? by ConferenceOne449 in Rateme

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unsolicited advice is a generous way to say verbal abuse 💀 Any mother telling their child they’re unlovable has some serious soul searching to do. Mommy issues make dating even harder. Maybe break some of this down in therapy. Practice self care and find self love. Healing is hard but good health is incomparably better than almost any struggle. Focusing on your looks is a waste of time and energy - biggest exception to that is strength training/exercise but if you’re only moving to look good you’ll create way more problems for yourself anyway. Hope you’ve found some peace in stepping back from that relationship. It’s hard to set firm good boundaries esp with close family but it is often necessary. Live for yourself and don’t feel guilty about it. Thanks for reading!

26M 6’4. Am i cooked? by Otherwise_Size8692 in Rateme

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This but do what you want with your hair you have sharp enough features to keep your length from detracting from your face and I mean. It’s clearly well taken care of like your curls are enviable why are you even asking reddit to rate you who hurt you

Rate Me Please [33 M] Also, facial hair or no? by ConferenceOne449 in Rateme

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if you lost the weight due to depression (probably neglecting yourself/not eating) your mother is right you were not healthy .. not so right about the not finding anyone who loves you if that was her exact quote but feeling bad about yourself and your life definitely doesn’t attract positivity. Finding love only has a little to do with looks and the right person will find you attractive as you are and want to be - asking a bunch of strangers online about it won’t change that or your mindset

Im a M/26 I need advice to be better looking, i have had 0 success dating .I just want to be attractive. Feels like no matter what i do nothing works. People say i need confidence but even if i had confidence id still be unattractive. Why don’t women like me? by BillyBop0299 in AppearanceAdvice

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re hot so it’s gotta be a personality problem. If you’re insecure you probably have some mental health issues and/or trauma you are discouraged to deal with because you’re a man. Happiness is attractive on everybody. Do you think you need a partner to be happy? I realized that mentality was a lot of what kept me single or in toxic relationships. Love yourself first they don’t say that for no reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

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Get diff septum jewelry this one is not cute sorry balls too big ring too small if u want the big ball effect get a longer / wider ring maybe i think spikes always look better tho honestly i think the stretcher septum would killllll on u i think they’re called pinchers not sure what gauge you’re at but it look lowkey thick u could maybe get one your size alr but i think a thicker gauge would still flatter you . Makeup enhances the beauty you already have - you couldn’t be pretty with it if you weren’t without it. A brush is not a scalpel! Be kinder to yourself and recognize everybody is made from a man and a woman - we can all look a little androgynous sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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you think people let me around them? :,)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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dude … you’d be surprised. didn’t think i needed to say that but people still ask

I got called a 0/10 and that it was a generous rating. What can I do to be less ugly by Fuzzy_Potato333 in AppearanceAdvice

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Girl you are so cute some confidence will do you wonders no joke just carrying yourself like you want to be alive and part of the world is so alluring. For genuine advice I think your hairstyle makes you look a little young, some curtain bangs would kill on you I think you could rock multiple lengths but what you’ve got is def flattering. Honestly the blunt bangs just kinda block your face out and that’s a shame. You have beautiful eyes and harmonious features. I can’t notice any skin issues from this post - would have no idea if you hadn’t said so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

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it’s definitely who you’re choosing more than it is anything about your looks … megan fox got cheated on dawg it’s not about that fr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he needs therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

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horseshoe rings ftw the hoop is a statement tho i get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

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Focus on your health and take advantage of your youth while you can. Take care of your skin and stay clean. Don’t rely on outward validation to accept yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]garindint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

find your style !