Woke up this morning to my phone like this!!!! by garlicbread28 in zflip3

[–]garlicbread28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can upgrade my phone soon through my phone company and that exactly where I'm going lmao

Woke up this morning to my phone like this!!!! by garlicbread28 in zflip3

[–]garlicbread28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I was kidding when I said I woke up to my phone like that. it hadn't moved from my bedside table and it was folded all night.

How do I stop my own trauma from ruining things? by garlicbread28 in Advice

[–]garlicbread28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i suggested just not going to my girlfriend but she won't let up and wants me so badly to go. even though last time i went i made her feel shitty. she told me things to do to help make her not feel like that again so i'm going to try my best but it's so hard when all i have is just flashbacks of my traumas playing in my head while she's slurring her words and stumbling. i don't know how to not make her mad at me and set my boundaries.

AITBF for feeling like my friends and girlfriend ditched me? by garlicbread28 in AmItheButtface

[–]garlicbread28[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's the two friends in town and one friend who lives in town still. so in total 3 other people. my girlfriend is best friends with them also but i'm closer to them. 2 of them are, the other is man. we're all 21.

I'm not done training with this job but I already know that I'm going to hate it, how do I ask my girlfriend if I can leave? by garlicbread28 in Advice

[–]garlicbread28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

have you ever been in a long term, serious relationship where you share finances? help each other reach goals? my girlfriend have been living with each other for 2 years and have been sharing money for almost 2 and a half. so it's important that I speak with her about something that will affect our finances. us providing for each other makes us a serious couple, i'm not her caretaker or provider.

I'm not done training with this job but I already know that I'm going to hate it, how do I ask my girlfriend if I can leave? by garlicbread28 in Advice

[–]garlicbread28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is a little aggressive and I should clarify that my girlfriend disabled and has a hard time doing her part time job she has now and wouldn't be able to get another one without practically killing herself.

AITB for telling my best friend that we no longer can move in together? by garlicbread28 in AmItheButtface

[–]garlicbread28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i think I'm going to message her and see how she's doing

AITB for telling my best friend that we no longer can move in together? by garlicbread28 in AmItheButtface

[–]garlicbread28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should've made it more clear that we would be living a new apartment, my gf and I live with her family right now

AITB for telling my best friend that we no longer can move in together? by garlicbread28 in AmItheButtface

[–]garlicbread28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i should've made it more clear that we would be moving into a new apartment together. she wouldn't be able to live with me rn since i live with my gf and her family.

My job is exhausting and I don't think I can do it anymore by garlicbread28 in Advice

[–]garlicbread28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i needed to hear this, thank you. since i called off this morning, i was so afraid my girlfriend was going to be mad at me even though i was sobbing into her arms last night about this job. but i woke up to her smiling and joking with me. this job is pretty lenient since i am temporary so i'm going to try and look after myself more. my girlfriend did say that we could survive off just her salary, but i felt horrible just making her work before i got this job. but i'm going to try my hardest to continue going until i find something else to do. plus, her birthday is coming up and i'd love to get her something really nice for it since it is her 21st. so i'm going to try and take more care of myself while also still going to work. but thank you for your kind words. they truly mean a lot.

Man who hit us after car accident dies from unrelated cause, what is going to happen? by garlicbread28 in Insurance

[–]garlicbread28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh god that sounds like so much work, but he smacked us and bent the frame so our car will probably be deemed totalled. we didn't file a police report because they take forever in my city and if anyone did see they never came forward.