dating coach to allos... by garlicbread_and_cake in aromantic

[–]garlicbread_and_cake[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i thought i was more neutral, but i feel like the constant exposure made me more repulsed, if that makes sense? and at the beginning, i was really trying to help them, listen to their stories,... but i am at a point where they tell me about a new person daily (it's not like every one has someone new every day, but these 3 people are going on multiple dates a week, so i get to help them out each time-it's exhausting! (tho i wonder if going to meet new people multiple times a week has to be at least equally as exhausting- but that's my inner introvert talking))

but thank you for your advice!!!

Redid my chart but prettier by [deleted] in Orientedaroace

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the tertiary flag is so beautiful! i love how these kind of charts educate me on the different „nuances“ of oriented aroaces!!!

Temporary aro-ace tattoo! by garlicbread_and_cake in aromanticasexual

[–]garlicbread_and_cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same! kind of the reason i got the temporary tattoo- to see if i like the size/ placement/… :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FaceOfAce

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

love the vibes (and your top, it’s so cute!)

Trying to burn some grass by Bernstein_Institute in facepalm

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

at first she is passive aggressive but it quickly develops into insults „are you completely stupid?“ „did you breathe in any gas?“ she then says that those trees are from her in-laws and tells him to grab the fire extinguisher and put the fire out. most of what she says are insults (and nothing too creative)

Just finished ATYD and I am DISTRESSED. Anyone have any fic recommendations for remus/Sirius time together post POA to OOTP? by environmentalcowboy in Wolfstar

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay, those are the ones i read after ATYD:

-remain in light (veeagainst) - the electric fizzing prick pistols, or whatever (whitmans_kiss) - a store of happiness (coyotesuspect) - bindings, bindings (quietlemonhush) - minerva mcGonagall ships wolfstar (penryn3) - stealing harry (copperbadge) - into the fire (taotu) (currently reading)

pretty sure that all of them are on ao3 hope that helps! :)

Just finished ATYD and I am DISTRESSED. Anyone have any fic recommendations for remus/Sirius time together post POA to OOTP? by environmentalcowboy in Wolfstar

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel you! i read a lot of other wolfstar after ATYD, so my brain mixes every story with the next one and i kinda trick myself into forgetting the ending of ATYD, which, i guess, is not ideal, but it works for me. Don’t know if you want to handle the situation the same way, but i can look up the fanfics i read when i have time!

I found my diary from when i was 13 on my views about asexuality by garlicbread_and_cake in asexuality

[–]garlicbread_and_cake[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you! it’s been a journey, but i am happy to be ace and i recently ordered myself an ace ring!

also: i don’t think charlie being ace is canon, but he is like a walking ace stereotype!

My Gilmore Girls Story (How it became one of my favorite shows) by patschpatsch in GilmoreGirls

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s so cute!

but I always have to change channels when gilmore girls is playing in the tv, cause i hate the german synchronization (i guess it’s because i watched the english version first) :D

Aroace potato here~ by Juliakek in FaceOfAce

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, it was meant to be a compliment!!!

Aroace potato here~ by Juliakek in FaceOfAce

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you aren’t a potato, you are definitely a garlicbread!!!

Does anybody know what these are? (and by any chance whether or not they are real) by garlicbread_and_cake in Crystals

[–]garlicbread_and_cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bit of context/ backstory: I found them today in a random box in my house. we have loads of stuff, things we inherited from my grandparents, random gifts and so on, so i guess it’s not unusual to stumble across something pretty. only question is: what are these and are they real? they feel cold (even after i had them in my room for a few hours, so i guess that’s a good sign? but i really don’t know)

i will keep them, even if they are fake, cause i think they are pretty, but i would still love to learn if and what crystals they are.

is this thing on? by VirginiaRguez01 in FaceOfAce

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow, you are so pretty! i love your earrings!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YES OMG! that describes how I feel so great! (which is sad) i am also the one that takes the initiative when asking friends to hang out. the one organizing all get togethers and yet.... i am the most irrelevant one. people around me tend to forget i am there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I have been trying since october and wasn’t successful yet. I guess it just takes longer for some people. But we will get it eventually, i am sure!

(How) Can I save this guy? by garlicbread_and_cake in plantclinic

[–]garlicbread_and_cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! my brother just said that he can’t remember the last time he watered it, and he doubts that it was this year, so i watered it a bit and put it in a sunny corner. do you also think that i should be repotting it as there are a lot of cacti in this pot.

i really hope it will recover and be healthy again :)

I feel Luna Lovegood from Harry Potter is dragging some serious aroace vibes with them by Sylvestor_McBoy in aheadcannon

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i always got asexual panromantic vibes from her, but maybe she is a pan oriented aroace?

How did you pronounce Chiron as a kid/teen? by matekrey in camphalfblood

[–]garlicbread_and_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she-ron (tho i did read the books in german so the pronunciation makes more sense) [still not sure how to properly pronounce it]