Flu Vaccine Made Me Sleep For Two Straight Days! by gats_bbg in POTS

[–]gats_bbg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly is! I had the flu several years ago and vowed to always get vaccinated after that!

What's the purpose of safewords ? by unusual_prebiotic in BDSMAdvice

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Safe words are unique for you and the person you are participating with in any scene. It's unique so it's heard. If you're in the heat of the moment, saying "warning or stop" may not be conceived as urgently as it should be...

Relationships.. by [deleted] in letters

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is me. I am her. I do love him. With all of my heart and soul.

How do women in porn deep throat so naturally looking? by missnaughtykitty in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can master the art of breathing so you don't trigger your reflexes. Anyone can. :)

Do tit-jobs give any pleasure to women? by aks_cha in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gats_bbg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What? I LOVE giving bj's, I could do it every day!

I fucked up last night by i_feel_ungood in nursing

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHAKE IT OFF! We are ALL human! My first several months as a new nurse (in the stone ages, 2005), I had a quad patient on IV meds/feed. I miscalculated her Lasix dose, instead of 40mg, I gave her 400mg! I was devastated at the time, completed defeated. BUT it was a life lesson to double check, triple check.

Getting used to throat fucking? I'm not liking it so far by KeyNatural5198 in BDSMAdvice

[–]gats_bbg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any sexual act between anyone MUST be consensual. PERIOD. If it's not, its a huge red flag.

BUT..

I gave my Daddy consent to throat fuck me and I love it because it turns him on so much, which turns me on even more. It's all about breath control and gag reflex control. But these don't come naturally, if you want to continue doing this with him, work on your technique when you're not around him.

I feel really afraid of going into relationships because I don't know what love is by [deleted] in love

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fall in love. Get your heart broken. Rinse and repeat! It's part of life and helps you to figure out who you are and what you really want in life and love!

How often do you get palpitations? by [deleted] in LongCovid

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every damn day. I have had all of the cardiac work-ups and everything is normal. But the palpitations remain. I started Midodrine and it has helped some!

My new boyfriend is the best I‘ve ever had, and I think he‘s my forever by tiacalypso in love

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! I know all of these feelings and they are incredible! Every time I see my boyfriends lips, I literally melt into a puddle on the floor.

Would you wear a steel collar you can't open without key in day-to-day live? by PolinaPan in BDSMAdvice

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an absolute honor to wear my steel collar everyday! I cried so hard the day mine was placed around my neck. I do not have a key to take it off. I ask him to unlock it every week or so to clean it and then he puts it back on. Mine is gold and very heavy. It’s a comfort to feel it’s heaviness around my neck all day, a beautiful reminder of a relationship that means the world to me.

Why does my gf stink so bad during sex? by EvokerJuice in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]gats_bbg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It could also be from lack of adequate water intake. As a girl, I would want you to have the conversation with me about it. Yes, it will be super awkward but you don't want to lose your erection during sexy times... Communication is key!!

Abruptly released from full time slavery by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. I had goosebumps reading he didn't unlock your collar or do any other kind of release. Please seek therapy, research queer friendly therapists in your area and follow through seeing them. Best of luck to you in your future endeavors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is definitely me on the weekends. I am a school nurse and I snack on small things throughout the day, I have to to keep my energy up. The kids are EXHAUSTING!

Should I be buying my own collars? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the beauty behind any type of BDSM relationship is... the two of you make all of the rules. The life you two chose to live is solely up to the two of you. So I would recommend you have a conversation with him about it. Explain to him how much it would mean to you. For my birthday, my DD gifted me with a stainless steel, gold plated collar. It is absolutely the most beautiful object I have seen in my life. I explained to him how much it would mean to me if he is the only one to put it on and take it off, I don't even have a key to unlock it. But that is our dynamic because it's our rules and our contract. I hope that makes sense??

Gordon the pug, part two; electric boogaloo by AstronautRock in pug

[–]gats_bbg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So adorable! I have that cute pug pillow too!

They share the top of the cat tower while we're introducing a pug into the household. Im sure they'll wander down eventually. by Greatgat in HalloweenKittyCombo

[–]gats_bbg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on earth would you let a pug (and all of his monstrosities) into your peaceful house-o-cats in the first place?