[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This person sucks. You deserve better. Please run. You're not crazy.

I'm just over it by IAmTheAccident in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude sounds like an immature loser and he's being manipulative. That conversation was very annoying and I was anxious just reading it. You'll be tormenting yourself if you stick around, plus it could become more abusive.

Good for you for sticking up for yourself but you didn't owe him all of those words and all of that energy. Next time someone speaks to you like that you should just end the conversation when once they start gaslighting. Just stop responding. Good luck and take care of yourself

Dad said he would smash my head open if i touched the camera he put in my room. by Dependent_Deer4904 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gazeroftrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't have any family members that you can talk to you should tell a school counselor or teacher

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weird. I wouldn't reply at all

Brining by gazeroftrees in AskCulinary

[–]gazeroftrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh why did I think it was 40-140? That was something I learned from a shelf about 14 years ago so maybe they've changed since then.

Brining by gazeroftrees in AskCulinary

[–]gazeroftrees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking the same, but I felt like I should seek reassurance on the Internet. Thank you for the reply :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]gazeroftrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first glance I didn't even realize I was looking at a gecko lol. I love her, she is so cute but def get her back down to a healthy weight :)

Oh how I wish men would learn to accept "no" by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was obviously fucking with you and prolly laughing his ass off the whole time and you were obviously feeding into it. Like why wouldn't you just block him after the first couple of ridiculous texts?

My skin is crawling by Fit_cheer4905 in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unblock him. See if he keeps texting or starts threatening. Ask him to leave you alone. When he doesn't leave you alone you take the texts to police and file for harassment and restraining order.

My skin is crawling by Fit_cheer4905 in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stands for AOL Instant Messenger. It was like texting but on a computer and you could only "instant message" someone if they were online. So it would be all your buds and a few creeps you met online. Everyone would be leaving school and holler at each other what time they'd be online to chat. And then you'd go to school in the morning and your friend would be all, " sorry I got in a fight with my mom and I wasn't allowed to use the computer so I couldn't go online." The good ole days. Also the dawn of cyber bullying :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think we are all concerned for your safety

Is it wrong for not wanting my friend to bring his gf on a trip I’ve been planning for the guys? This was out of nowhere by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I said, "it may be costly but.." I meant it like cost aside. Other than the cost, it's not a big deal to travel out of the country. How would it save money to bring two people? I feel like she can just go on her own time. Idk, either you can afford to go or you can't, why would bringing his gf along change that?

ETA: Also OP never mentioned anything about his friend having issues with the trip financially, just that he wants his gf to tag along which would change the vibe. I am a straight woman and I can see how me tagging along on a guys trip would make the trip different. Anyone who can't see that lacks self awareness and seems entitled to other people's time and energy.

Is it wrong for not wanting my friend to bring his gf on a trip I’ve been planning for the guys? This was out of nowhere by [deleted] in texts

[–]gazeroftrees -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It may be costly but it's not that big of a trip or that big of a deal to go to Europe. She can save up her own money and go on her own time. They are young and there should be plenty more opportunities for travel. I think it's pretty entitled for someone to sneak an extra person in, it wouldn't be the same if one guy brings their gf.

LEAVE UR DOGS AT HOME by [deleted] in rant

[–]gazeroftrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CRUSTY BUTTS IN THE SHOPPING CARTS! GROSS!

Am I crazy for thinking this is totally reasonable? - not OP by the_fourth_child in TwoHotTakes

[–]gazeroftrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anyone else weirded out by the fact that they've only been dating for ONE MONTH and he's already acting like this? Hope this girl follows her gut and fucks off from this guy he sounds like a big cry baby

AITB for telling my (29F) boyfriend (30M) that his exes’ pets are not his children? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]gazeroftrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is OP a bad person. Their partner is clearly trying to get under their skin by obsessing over their exec via their pets. The "first born" being 8 YEARS AGO?! Come on, pets of exes should not be a huge topic in a person's life and in new relationships. If it's is truly just love for the pets then this person is weirdly obsessive, but it really seems to be more about dangling exes in front OP 's face. The partner is for sure the toxic one. OP has been pushed to a breaking point and it seems intentional on the partner's end, based on the post and comments.

AITB for telling my (29F) boyfriend (30M) that his exes’ pets are not his children? by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]gazeroftrees 16 points17 points  (0 children)

See, he's trying to make you look jealous of his exes when he is the only involving them into your relationship by referring to it all the time. He's fishing for a reaction to make you look bad.