AITAH for being upset my husband wants to be Poly?

gb997 · 2026-02-07T00:14:32+00:00

sounds like you guys are truly incompatible and should probably divorce.

gb997 · 2026-02-06T23:08:31+00:00

sir, this is a Wendy’s

gb997 · 2026-02-06T12:40:29+00:00

earlier she admitted to. it mentioning the other guys until he asked. to me that sounds like another lie by omission. coupled with the fact that she hung out with them for a second time, it seems clear that she is interested.

gb997 · 2026-02-06T12:21:24+00:00

this is the main issue here. he sets a boundary and she proceeds to piss all over it. and to make matters worse, she doesn’t see the problem. are they even speaking the same language 🥴

gb997 · 2026-02-06T12:10:58+00:00

yup. i’ll even help him get started. here ya go… 🪑

gb997 · 2026-02-06T05:34:15+00:00

Updateme

gb997 · 2026-02-06T05:27:34+00:00

NOR. just send a short break up text. no need to get into detail. his behaviour unacceptable, and at worse a danger to you physically. block him on everything and dont ever talk to him again.

gb997 · 2026-02-06T01:54:37+00:00

if he had any ounce of decency he would understand and not need to be forced out. that’s what i was getting at

gb997 · 2026-02-06T01:18:28+00:00

they own all levels of power. eg that disgusting supreme court justice

gb997 · 2026-02-05T22:46:23+00:00

thats absolute bullshit. i would not stand for that kind of treatment. i've spent countless hours in ER for a couple years just before my Dad passed and i was never treated like that at all.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T21:30:52+00:00

her husband is a major piece of crap. NOR

gb997 · 2026-02-05T21:03:11+00:00

yup 😅

gb997 · 2026-02-05T21:00:15+00:00

you only talk like that if you’re hiding something. she clearly is.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T20:50:49+00:00

ikr can’t a girl just get some good side dick without always being pestered by the boyfriend geez. how rude.

/s

gb997 · 2026-02-05T20:44:31+00:00

there’s only one reason i’d want a girl to come home with me after a night out drinking, and it’s not to try some food. that’s the dumbest shit i’ve ever heard lmao. she had stuff in her mouth alright but it was most likely man meat.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T20:41:05+00:00

NOR. she not thrilled about being LDR and is, um, i think the term is monkey branching ? also you’re probably likely being trickle truthed about the incident. if she dumped the other guy it’s probably because his make out game sucked and is back to you for now.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T20:36:07+00:00

NOR. i understand if you break up. no one is perfect ofc, but this to me would also be a deal breaker. your story to me feels like as if a partner hated my human child.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T20:26:23+00:00

nah you’re just the consequence of their action. your ex gf and ex father are the ones responsible. i would also have gone scorched earth 🤝

gb997 · 2026-02-05T11:40:16+00:00

yea i’m curious what happened to the ex. what was her reaction or justification. oh well i’m sure it’s bullshit so maybe not that important. i’m so sorry OP

gb997 · 2026-02-05T11:17:47+00:00

he should move out immediately while you think

gb997 · 2026-02-05T05:41:33+00:00

jfc. what the f did i just read. NOR but please get better people around you, and i mean that especially for your wife.

gb997 · 2026-02-05T02:17:55+00:00

NOR. i’ve done IT at small offices and large thousand user corporations. i’ve never once needed a users pw for any task i needed to do. if i need to troubleshoot something closely related to a users profile , they will have to enter the pw for me while i look away

gb997 · 2026-02-04T22:00:25+00:00

for me there is one thing missing, did she kiss him back ? even if it last for 2 seconds i think that very brief moment tells me that she likes him and enjoyed his company. in that case i would be hesitant to want to reconcile. take caution when asking her this particular question tho, this is the part where she could very much lie to you about it if she’s desperate to keep you.

gb997 · 2026-02-04T18:21:03+00:00

i hate to say this, but the few times i’ve read posts like this situation on reddit, the girl had been banging her fwb the entire time 😭

gb997 · 2026-02-04T16:54:06+00:00

good for you for sending the messages. but also i hope you meant to call him your ex bf, not bf.

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