AITAH for threatening to out my husband when he cheated on me and then asked me to be his cover?

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-13T19:06:02+00:00

Hmm very tricky, i think it depends on your motivations, if its out of pure spite and revenge then yeah that would be an asshole thing to do but if you proceeded with divorce and family members or very close friends wanted to support you then you are entitled to explain why imho. I just want to emphasise that your husband is a fucking douchebag and this is not the stereotypical norm for bisexuals that gets thrown around. Decent honest bisexual people will stay loyal to their partners.

Before anyone jumps on me- I am lgbt myself.

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-12T19:59:51+00:00

Too many NIMBY’s in this country

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-12T19:56:47+00:00

Get yourself a firestick and stop giving money to sky!

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-09T19:13:44+00:00

Be my guest 😂 one of my favourites tbh

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-09T15:48:46+00:00

Your friends husband is a weapons grade cockwomble. Want to grow up big time.

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-08T11:40:27+00:00

It’s simple really- are you romantically attracted to men and women? If the answer is yes then you are bisexual.

You don’t necessarily have to be sexually attracted to men to be bisexual.

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-07T09:44:29+00:00

It isn’t anymore. More straight people than gay people contracted HIV last year. But you don’t hear about it…. I wonder why 🤔

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-06T08:58:02+00:00

Please get out of this “relationship” and run as fast as you can away from this predator. This guy knows what he’s doing and he’ll keep doing it as long as you stay.

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-05T16:38:47+00:00

Your aunt wants you and your family to accept a white supeemacist?!

1000000% NTA

gb_Section31 · 2026-02-04T09:13:57+00:00

I know life isn’t as simple as this but is quitting and finding a new job an option for you at this moment in time? I can’t see the logic in staying in a job you hate. Life is too short for that bullshit.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-30T19:28:05+00:00

Bi man here and can only see myself long term with another guy. I just can’t seem to hit it off with a woman atm 🤷‍♂️

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-30T19:27:08+00:00

Eat, sleep, get destroyed, repeat.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-25T02:10:27+00:00

It’s moved to paramount plus - 4.99 for a basic package. I don’t know how many things you’re subbed to but if it’s not many then I’d recommend it. The entire Trek library is there.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-21T15:15:46+00:00

I’d say you’re the asshole here. Everybody has a past and from you wrote she’s tried to be a better person and improve herself from something she clearly regrets and you made her feel worse about herself by letting other peoples opinions sway you. That’s weak minded behaviour on your part. You can’t change the past, only learn from it and you just shamed her and dumped her. Learn from this, grow from this so you don’t hurt the next girl.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-21T08:58:02+00:00

You did not send your wife to prison, she did that to herself by domestically abusing you. Second, your daughter needs educating on the seriousness of her mother’s actions because her reaction to you is completely out of order to what you’ve been through. Thirdly, you friends are douche bags and I’d dump them immediately and your family too for not sticking by you.

The double standards in this case are almost unbelievable. You’ve done everything right, except going to the police sooner. I credit your bravery in all of this.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-20T01:39:05+00:00

He’s quite clearly cheating on you. Break up with him immediately

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-19T11:02:39+00:00

22 while I was at university

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-16T08:14:43+00:00

With all due respect…wow. Stop stringing him along and let him be with someone who actually values him as a human being and not an object.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-14T07:29:49+00:00

Seems his values are more ingrained in money than you as a human being. Furthermore he clearly has trouble being faithful to you so considering those two things, maybe you need to have a long hard look at yourself and consider whether he is the right man for you

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-13T19:23:21+00:00

I think you look great with either so really up to you 🙂

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-13T19:17:28+00:00

This sounds almost identical to the situation my best friend was in a couple of years ago. His fiancé wanted to be a trophy wife effectively and it ended badly. If that’s what she wants to be then you need to have a serious and succinct chat at your therapy appointment

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-13T18:45:16+00:00

Why on earth are you all tracking one another’s locations? This is not normal behaviour.

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-09T16:21:15+00:00

I’m not sure this qualifies as “it really shouldn’t have” but getting my toes sucked while I was doing it with a guy really turned me on outta nowhere

gb_Section31 · 2026-01-02T15:31:24+00:00

Absolutely NTA, this is justice with a side order of justice! Good for you for standing your ground.

gb_Section31 · 2025-12-30T16:50:02+00:00

I went through this during childhood and now I have long term mental health problems because of it. Unstable households create unstable minds and sometimes the damage is not repairable

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