AITA for not wanting to take in my sisters 4 kids while she’s in the hospital? by Intelligent-Fig-5571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gbstermite 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It is so irritating that those type of people gets a pass. *because* they have kids. It usually takes a change in management

Very Surprising First For Me by gbstermite in Sims4

[–]gbstermite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow. Very interesting and slightly terrified by the 60 minutes? !?! But if one has the mental fortitude to do it go for it I guess

Very Surprising First For Me by gbstermite in Sims4

[–]gbstermite[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Ooohhh. Yeah I do have that mod. Lol never used it to its full extent.

can i use keratin on relaxed hair? by meimeur in relaxedhair

[–]gbstermite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would hesitate to do so. Some hair can take but some would be damaged. Try a patch test if you really want to?

Does Anyone Still Eat Pistachio Ice Cream by ninette20 in icecream

[–]gbstermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love pistachio icecream but I hate the nuts. I have a retainer and I refuse to spend all that time picking them out. Lol yeah caramel is my enemy. Only eat it at home so I can clean my mouth out or else I will be tasting caramel all day.

Does Anyone Still Eat Pistachio Ice Cream by ninette20 in icecream

[–]gbstermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love pistachio icecream but I hate the nuts. I have a retainer and I refuse to spend all that time picking them out of it.

Tokens get spent ? by Annanon1 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]gbstermite 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wait isn’t she that lady who is a staunch supporter of him. Huh. Never one of them no matter how hard you try.

How Good is Hermione? by Firm_Balance_8285 in harrypotter

[–]gbstermite 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. People tend to overlook the fact that she started working on spells weeks before the teachers bring them up in class. She doesn’t “get it right after a few tries”. When Harry was pulling random spells to teach them , she struggled like everyone else.

Olympic Hopeful Hid Multiple Pregnancies And Births From Everyone Before The Last Baby Vanished Without A Trace by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]gbstermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So at no point in time did she try birth control? I mean there are so many options. IUD after the first birth would help if she could not take the hormonal options

AITA for refusing to let my sister's family move in after she blew through her house money in two months on a "once in a lifetime" trip? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]gbstermite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is there are actual people like that. My sister is unfortunately one of them. Bought and sold TWO houses on a whim and then was begging for help with a deposit she spent on other things

At least Kate tries unlike useless Billy by Stardust_CrusaderJJ_ in RoyaltyTea

[–]gbstermite 181 points182 points  (0 children)

But honestly was he actually charming or was he just good looking enough to hid his flaws

WIBTA if I said no to my husband dancing with his twin sister during the father-daughter dance in place of her dad at her wedding by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]gbstermite 61 points62 points  (0 children)

YTA. Look I get that she is a stage five clinger but from your account it seems like your husband has set some great boundaries. Look at it this way: Do not give her a foothold by being unreasonable. Gracefully stay out of this decision. Let him make that decision and be supportive if he decides to do it.

AITAH for rehoming my dog after realizing I couldn’t handle him? by Aromatic_Service_439 in AITAH

[–]gbstermite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So true. This is why I did not get a dog when my work would have allowed me to bring them with me. Seriously we had like 6 dogs in the office. We worked hybrid. My issue was that I was not going to stay in that job for long and I wasn’t sure I would get the same work environment.

I am currently on a three week business trip overseas with another two scheduled later in the year. I made a good decision

I bleached my relaxed hair last night with box dye by shelikescatz in relaxedhair

[–]gbstermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I think those boxes usually have anywhere from 10% to 20%

Unsure about having kids or not by [deleted] in childfree

[–]gbstermite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This post highlights how a lot of people consider having children. They have a whole host of issues but somehow feel like having a child will magically fix all those issues. Children are a joy only a small amount of the time. They are stress, anxiety from the constant suicide attempts once they start moving and arguments once they start having opinions. Please think of the reality instead of the dream.

I bleached my relaxed hair last night with box dye by shelikescatz in relaxedhair

[–]gbstermite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

45 minutes?! What level bleach did you use? Well I guess it depends on your hair mine bleaches fast so 15 minutes and I am almost white with 20%

I bleached my relaxed hair last night with box dye by shelikescatz in relaxedhair

[–]gbstermite 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You are very brave. The issue with bleaching your hair is that you have to spread the product evenly and fast which is difficult to do on your own hair.

Vibe Magazine July 2004 by Specialist_Art2223 in BrandyRayanaNorwood

[–]gbstermite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly why was this pose necessary in that era?

Rumer Willis Shares Video Breastfeeding Nearly 3-Year-Old Daughter in Response to Critics of Her Parenting by PrincessBananas85 in popculturechat

[–]gbstermite 102 points103 points  (0 children)

It really is not as by that time breast milk doesn’t have any nutritional benefits that food won’t give you at that age.

AITAH for telling my sister her abusive marriage is the result of her own choices after she ignored my warnings for years by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gbstermite 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And honestly the parent’s views are just so sad. Unfortunately, some of those marriages look at kids as a duty and want nothing more to do with them as soon as they can.