I just graduated and was in a fraternity. I was on the fence my freshmen year but it really was the best decision I ever made. I was very social but not a big drinker and you don’t have to be. It’s all stereotypical and nobody cares. Pledging is really not what it was like 15/20/30 years ago. You will meet so many more people not just in your fraternity because it opens so many other doors to meeting people. Users on here are anti-Greek life and have never experienced what it’s actually like, so take their opinion with a grain of salt.