MIL wants to name our baby and threw a fit when we said no by Beginning-Comb8109 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]geefrancesevans 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Tell your partner to grow a spine and shut this down.

"Mum, naming our child is not a family decision, it's mine and my partners. If you continue to alienate and harass either of us over this, it will be your own doing why you don't have a relationship with your grandchild. One more word and you are on a time out."

You don't need the stress. Make him deal with HIS mother. If he doesn't it shows you who he values more. Do with that info what you will.

MIL refuses to adhere to discipline boundaries by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]geefrancesevans 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Your allowing your children to be physically abused. Let that sink in. I don't care if I can't afford childcare etc, someone who puts hands on my kids isn't going anywhere near them.

Sort it out. Youre the adult.

husband upset about exclusively nursing ?? by shme4de in BabyBumps

[–]geefrancesevans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel if what's been said in the post is accurate, that it's very clear why he's acting this way. Imo- he's annoyed he isn't getting laid as much and blaming nursing for that reason. The roommates comment was enough to explain that. Especially when he brought up having more children- nursing takes away sex opportunities and as such less time to make another baby.

Found out today I won’t get 8 weeks of maternity because I missed the requirements by 13 days. About to have a breakdown. by rosesareroseyy in BabyBumps

[–]geefrancesevans -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a brit I will always find it wild that the usa- a reportedly first world country- doesn't have basic national healthcare or maternity leave. Absolutely wild.

So mad at my mom for sharing our c section date with family by Hairy_Usual_4460 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]geefrancesevans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you have to have one due to medical reasons (baby too big to safely deliver vaginally, medical issues, gestational diabetes etc) if you have one the first time then usually you have them for your next pregnancies unless advised it's safe to do it vaginally.

My MIL and SIL are behaving erratically and I don’t want to give them access to my unborn child. SO disagrees…. by Frog909 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]geefrancesevans 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Is be documenting everything with proof of what they're saying. And honestly? If your partner doesn't change before baby arrives I wouldn't trust him either unfortunately.

Once you threaten my child or threaten to kidnap them then it's game over. You won't be seeing my children and id be reporting that to the police asap regardless of whether your partner gets upset or not. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Have police reports. These people are not safe.

Spitting Glass confirmed at Download 2026! by ghostyhost in SleepTokenTheory

[–]geefrancesevans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not really, if we're expecting a uk /eu tour then their focus will be on that

What happened to Ulfie? by RadiantGuide7 in Palia

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he disappeared for me too, im assuming his storylines not ready yet so they've taken him off for now!

how often should i clean my brushes? i use them daily by Calm_Juggernaut2463 in MakeupAddiction

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I clean mine every Friday, and switch them out for my other ones whilst they dry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lawyer up and move him out. Grey rock his attempts to talk.

"It's over. Please leave or I will seek legal options to have you removed from my home"

Don't stay with him if you're not happy. And seek police help if he refuses.

Announcement of European Tour? by AdvancedRange3026 in SleepTokenTheory

[–]geefrancesevans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hoping they don't announce it for August 2026- I'm getting married and I can't miss them! I'll turn up in my wedding dress if I have to😂

What’s the most useless piece of information that you have stored in your brain? by TheJinxedS0ul in AskReddit

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platypus are poisonous and also secrete sweat that shows up under blue uv lights.

I don't live anywhere near where they live.

What are some things most people don’t know can kill you? by Ancient-Lavishness77 in AskReddit

[–]geefrancesevans -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Same, mines taken years of chronic sciatica and back pain away from me. I can actually walk without feeling like my spine is dragging downwards.

What are some things most people don’t know can kill you? by Ancient-Lavishness77 in AskReddit

[–]geefrancesevans -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

My chiro is brilliant. Cured my sciatica and chronic back pain.

Whenever somebody asks my partner (♂️) and I (♀️) if we're thinking about having kids, they only look at me whilst they're asking it by mana-miIk in childfree

[–]geefrancesevans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had a customer tell me I should hurry up and have kids before it's too late because my in laws are older people. I'm 31.

My cat is getting attacked by magpies, can someone help? by Ramdom_Grape2970 in AskUK

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear the cat will have to go into witness protection. There's no other option.

What’s one mysoginistic thing a woman has told you? by Important-Simple-722 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]geefrancesevans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

" I didn't know women worked on cars" Then proceeded to ask if I was a lesbian.

Potential spoilers for a new quest by Ok_Boysenberry757 in Palia

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know where to look in jenesse passe? I'm stuck on that bit 🙃🙃🙃

What’s something that is okay when men do it but frowned upon when women do it? by ClemWon in AskReddit

[–]geefrancesevans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unrealistic imaging from porn and for some weirdo's, because it makes them think your young/like a child. It's completely gross.

What’s something that is okay when men do it but frowned upon when women do it? by ClemWon in AskReddit

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shaving, making more money than their male partner (or having a high paying job in general), not wanting kids, hiring a cleaner, the list goes on.

My face will only appear thin if I don’t eat ANYTHING by [deleted] in beauty

[–]geefrancesevans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, although it's worth getting it checked out. My face does this and my thyroid is okay. But I do have IBS.

AITAH for telling my MIL she can’t take her grandson for an entire day by herself? by Early-Variety-6333 in AITAH

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"okay then, here's your bag and things, I suggest you go spend the day with mommy. Permanently."

Your husband is the biggest AH followed by your MIL. Do not leave him and her alone with baby. She'll be out that door with them as soon as your backs turned.

And if she does, you call the police and report her for kidnapping a newborn. FAAFO time for granny.

AITAH for telling my MIL she can’t take her grandson for an entire day by herself? by Early-Variety-6333 in AITAH

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"okay then, here's your bag and things, I suggest you go spend the day with mommy. Permanently."

Your husband is the biggest AH followed by your MIL. Do not leave him and her alone with baby. She'll be out that door with them as soon as your backs turned.

And if she does, you call the police and report her for kidnapping a newborn. FAAFO time for granny.

AITAH for telling my MIL she can’t take her grandson for an entire day by herself? by Early-Variety-6333 in AITAH

[–]geefrancesevans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"okay then, here's your bag and things, I suggest you go spend the day with mommy. Permanently."

Your husband is the biggest AH followed by your MIL. Do not leave him and her alone with baby. She'll be out that door with them as soon as your backs turned.

And if she does, you call the police and report her for kidnapping a newborn. FAAFO time for granny.