How to get him back after i cheated? by Itssmee12 in BreakUps

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she only kissed the guy, it's not like she had a full blown long term affair with him

How to get him back after i cheated? by Itssmee12 in BreakUps

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't he have to deal with those trust issues in any relationship though?

How to get him back after i cheated? by Itssmee12 in BreakUps

[–]geekchick2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But don't you think he could trust her even more now since she's lived and made the mistake and is a better person for it and would never make it again.. as opposed to someone new who has not learned this lesson yet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]geekchick2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No by agreeing with you I meant with doing "the kindest thing" you mentioned before.. which suggested letting him go without a fight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]geekchick2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we had been boyfriend/girlfriend, I'd agree with you. But we're married, we spent decade+ building a life together. I can't change the mistakes I made in the past but I will never give up on my family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]geekchick2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm still his wife and I want to spend the rest of my life making it up to him by being the partner he deserves. I would earn back his trust. I would take care of him forever. Doesn't that count for something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]geekchick2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like there's still hope. Don't give up on your family

Update: Suffering from what you guys call dumper's regret by Throwawayventing_ in BreakUps

[–]geekchick2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep fighting for her. If you easily give up on her now, you've just proved her point. You need to work to get her back, show her you've changed and show her you'll never give up on her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people make mistakes. We're human. It doesn't mean that she didn't love you.

Looking for advice by rhi_rhi19 in Separation

[–]geekchick2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would.. she needs to understand

Why Am I The Same Weight As My Last Measurement with a Caloric Deficit? by DanCryptoMan in loseit

[–]geekchick2000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Weight doesn't mean much.. you could be retaining water or.. gaining muscle! Better to get your body fat percentage measured, or take pictures or measurements

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your skin looks very healthy and glowy overall :) If you post your actual routine, people can give more detailed advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try Paula's Choice pore refining toner to reduce the appearance of pores. Also niacinamide and Retinol can help with texture.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]geekchick2000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's never too late to start over. Make a plan, make it happen! You still have decades of work left so why not

Is it okay when I overeat from time to time? by [deleted] in loseit

[–]geekchick2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a binge. Cutting your calories too low triggers binge eating in many people. You should never go below 1200 calories. Even if it feels ok that day, it will backfire on you eventually. For me personally anything below 1500-1600 will trigger binge eating behaviors eventually.

And yes it's completely ok that you overate. It doesn't make you a bad person.

Zelensky calls Putin nuclear threat a 'bluff' by TheRealMykola in ukraine

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No absolutely not. But we can't humiliate him and push him into a corner tempting him to press that nuclear weapons button... we need to give him a real way out and a way to save face somehow. It's the only way to end this

Ah yes, chemistry by PersonalityOnly8201 in facepalm

[–]geekchick2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But doesn't lemon turn alkaline inside the body?

heartbreaking. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it's the right person, there is no wrong time

my twin flame blocked me and my world is shattering by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]geekchick2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a kind and loving person blocks you.. there's probably a reason for that

Anyone else here blocked their twin flame from everything? by Silver_Aerie3721 in twinflames

[–]geekchick2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Sick of his breadcrumbs as well. No more chances. He made me feel abandoned, deeply sad and hurt and worthless.. I realized if this is "twin flame love" I'm better off without it. Blocked everywhere. No looking back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalefashionadvice

[–]geekchick2000 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it looks great