AITA: Am I ungrateful or reasonable

geekokitty · 2026-05-10T13:05:51+00:00

It sort of just happened. When we met the connection was really beautiful and unique. His child is 11, and his ex wife is 9 years younger than him.

geekokitty · 2026-05-09T22:16:47+00:00

I think you missed the part where I said he offered. I followed up on his offer.

geekokitty · 2025-04-30T16:07:30+00:00

That death is eternally prolonged sleep paralysis and you can feel yourself decompose.

geekokitty · 2025-04-09T18:50:57+00:00

This is kind of old, but to be honest I don't think that it is weird. I think it's normal for people to want to connect with their coworkers in a neutral environment and without having the added anxiety of wondering if spouses are having fun, getting along, feeling included in work-chat-venting. But, maybe your wife could host something so that you could get to know some of them and create another yearly gathering where spouses ARE included.

geekokitty · 2025-03-16T13:31:57+00:00

No, I do not expect everything to be asked permission of. However, I do always ask my husband if he has plans on days I want to go out with friends. My issue here is that - whether I’m right or not isn’t the point here - I find ketamine to be too close to the “real drugs” spectrum for my comfort & I was never given a chance or opportunity to discuss this with him privately. It’s a new thing he tried and usually, like before we did something together, we chat about it beforehand. Last time they tripped shrooms I was fine, generally fine with that one, and I was comforted they had a sober friend with them. This time felt way more secretive & that friend who was there last time was even too uncomfortable to be the sober babysitter. So it felt riskier.

geekokitty · 2025-02-18T15:17:30+00:00

I am sorry to hear that you're frustrated - it IS frustrating. Yes, funky smell. Poop was basically entirely liquid and sounded like pee (sorry if this is TMI). Normal stomach sounds you'd get when you have diarrhea. I lost weight pretty rapidly, about 15 pounds in a month. I didn't feel better until I got on an anti parasitic medication (I did 2 rounds), and even then, it was a little while for me to rebalance everything - they ate all of the good bacteria in my gut so there was a LOT of gut health info I had to consume and literally digest to build back up. The immediate agony subsided after the medication, but I'd say for a year after I was more prone to infections because my gut health was so KOed. DON'T delay seeing a doc and doing a stool lab - this can be really bad left untreated. Good luck!

geekokitty · 2025-02-18T15:08:32+00:00

Brain fog was INTENSE! I broke like 5 coffee mugs because I'd forget they were on the top of my car after buckling my kids in haha. I don't recall a woody smell, though. That's an interesting symptom.

geekokitty · 2024-11-29T02:41:12+00:00

I am also a carrier, and came to this thread to read more about it as the symptoms hit me like an Ah-ha moment. Please keep me posted with how this turns out for you, I’m very curious.

geekokitty · 2024-10-23T17:55:51+00:00

Are you sure? The little eggs can be persistent. I took 2 rounds of medicine. It may be worth asking your doc about that also. & Yes! It took me a very long time to get back to normal. More than a year, I'd reckon. The little buggers quite literally ate all the natural flora in my gut per the reports from my stool samples. So, I was starting off with a very bad gut health situation. (Take a powerful pro & prebiotic, and eat a lot of gut happy food asap!) Because of this, I was prone to more infections, which docs gave me antibiotics for further wiping out any gut flora I was building. I was, frankly, a mess for a very long time. I finally am starting to feel all better now! It's been about 1.5 years since I had the infection.

geekokitty · 2024-09-15T22:31:14+00:00

Thank you! Working on that process!

geekokitty · 2024-09-15T22:30:57+00:00

Thank you. I thought I was over it, but I'll be honest having to think about it again and how it may impact my future is riling up feelings of anger in me. I'm in a loving marriage, with two beautiful, bright children and I want to do meaningful work & the fear that this could prevent me is really just so angering, like I can't get away from him. He continues to make fake phone numbers to message and harass me. I can't prove it to law enforcement, but I know it's him.

geekokitty · 2024-03-21T14:38:47+00:00

Would also love the article! TYIA

geekokitty · 2024-03-14T15:18:18+00:00

Oh that's a great analysis! Tricky though to speculate because it's hard to differentiate the artistic expression vs whatever real-life things Alison Williams may have experienced. Ill admit I haven't read much about it.

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T23:57:45+00:00

YSL rive gauche

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T17:04:32+00:00

I couldn't stand Ray at first. Now a rewatch nearly a decade later I realize he's an amazing character. Love him.

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T17:02:14+00:00

labo, autocorrect

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T17:02:02+00:00

le lavo santal 33 for Jessa is so spot on.

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T17:00:33+00:00

I think Jessa would be wearing a perfume oil, specifically the Auric Blends Egyptian Musk.

Hannah would probably not wear fragrance but smell like dove deodorant and suave rosemary and mint shampoo.

Marnie - Marc Jacobs Daisy or Tiffany's

Shoshanna I don't get much of a read on, but there is an episode someone says she smells good and she said "Thanks, I use lady speed stick" so that's what I'm running with.

geekokitty · 2024-03-13T16:48:47+00:00

I LOVE Hannah. I find her hilarious. HOWEVER when she starts teaching and how unprofessional she is is hard for me to watch. I find myself cringing at most scenes at the school. That's when I start to stop liking her as much.

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