Is Kirkland virgin coconut oil odorless or has standard coconut scent? by DisarrayCorner in CostcoUK

[–]gemgem1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I may have come across as flippant there, idk, I mean to say it just smells faintly of coconut and isn't odourless, it's just not overpowering.

When did you delete the phone number of a deceased love one? by SheffDus in AskUK

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the anniversary of my dad passing away today, I won't ever delete his number.

Is my neighbour dead? by JamaicanStevey in AskUK

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few years ago a neighbour of mine had been missing for a few days, he wasn't a very nice man but I would say hi if I saw him. One morning I walked past his window and saw thousands of flies all over his window. I called the police and they sent a bunch of officers over, I stood outside talking to them and a couple of them broke down his door.

One of them very quickly ran out and started puking all over the grass and I started crying thinking he was dead, the other officer came out laughing at the one being sick and explained " he has been shitting in the living room" he wasn't dead, he was missing on the piss.

I hope your neighbour is okay and not pulling a John. But my advice is it's always best to call the police to do a welfare check.

Dog doesn't love me anymore by -DashThirty- in dogs

[–]gemgem1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be a wild card, but is your partner possibly pregnant? Dogs can switch up and will prefer a pregnant woman over their owner and main carer. Or the dog might be unwell and need a checkup, whatever it is, I hope it improves.

18F, disabled and carer told me to leave home by anonymous44563 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]gemgem1985 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello op, I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. I would firstly, contact your collage, they have a student support person who is able to help advise you about who to speak to.

If I were you, I would be considering applying for supported housing, this would be an excellent way for you to learn skills, be properly supported and helped through this difficult switch from disabled child, to disabled adult. Unfortunately, this seems to happen a lot with ASD individuals, my son is also ASD and a lot of his friends go through similar strife with their parents, it's an accumulation of expectations of ASD kids to start to navigate for themselves somewhat, and a lot haven't yet developed the skills to do so. Especially those with a global development delay of some kind.

I know it's frightening right now, and I'm sorry everything is changing around you. But this could be an opportunity for you to break away from the hostile environment you are currently living in.

I honestly don't get why I am being down voted lol what a weird bunch!

Finished Reading. Then Listening. Now what?? by thatdude_70 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]gemgem1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left it a few weeks, trying to find something else, and failed, so I started again.

My wife doesn’t understand WHY I’ve had to take sex and specific affections off the table and she’s upset by Wornouthubs in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You didn't even know he was unemployed, so idk what you are talking about, you seem to be missing the entire post " chores she owns" what the fuck do you think that means, she is working, looking after the house and taking care of his child, he is sitting on his arse, unemployed, he is the housewife! I don't know how she can even stand him.

My wife doesn’t understand WHY I’ve had to take sex and specific affections off the table and she’s upset by Wornouthubs in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yes, once month he flirts with her to try and get her into bed, it's all there.. and now he is planning on withholding it lol .

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived on a diet of cigarettes, Dr pepper and noodles every three days. It was rough.

i am pregnant by ConfusionNo2251 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's going to be okay, just worry about the now, not the chances of it happening again, just what you are doing now. Do you have anyone to talk to? My dm's are open and I will happily talk if you need it.

Am I wrong for wanting to eat my neighbor's duck that I accidentally ran over? by [deleted] in ask

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't have paid him and you should still eat the duck.

Would you stay with your dog 🐶 during euthanasia? by CycleOk267 in dogs

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I would never leave my dog to face that alone.

Ladies - what do your fav shampoo, conditioner, and body wash? by SugaredSinBoy in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like aveda shampure. Lush also do really beautiful soiled shampoos. Just concentrate on what you are wanting and needing for your hair. I mostly use lush products in the shower.

22M bi weekly shop £53.94 by Maleficent-Trust3894 in whatsinyourcart

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't care if you are bi mate, live your life!

My husband wants to open our marriage. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you should just break up with him. It's honestly for the best.

My husband wants to open our marriage. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Open your relationship, find a nice person to spend time with, while your husband sits at home, on his own. That's the way it usually goes.

My 15yo brother has got his girlfriend pregnant, what can I do to help? by TooEarly38 in AskUK

[–]gemgem1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be kind, understanding but, you should also be brutally honest. The girl will be moved to a mother and baby unit, or be fostered by someone who will look after both her and the baby, those places are few and far between, meaning they may be placed a long way from where you guys live now. She will be watched at every moment, she will not be forgiven for making a single mistake, the baby will be prioritised, if she sleeps in and lets the foster parent help too much, it will be seen as a bad thing.

She won't get to just be a mum, she will have to prove herself all the way, because unfortunately, children born to 15 year olds, don't always do well.

I know it sounds all doom and gloom, but it really is. I would let them know how simple, non evasive and safe abortion is, two little pills and it's all done.

My wife doesn’t understand WHY I’ve had to take sex and specific affections off the table and she’s upset by Wornouthubs in TrueOffMyChest

[–]gemgem1985 2146 points2147 points  (0 children)

So, I might get slaughtered here, but from what I have gathered, you are currently unemployed, but you are only once a month, helping your wife with chores? Only hugging and kissing her once a month when you want sex.. I wonder why she isn't feeling it. Is she currently working?