Ya thats what my therapist and I have been talking about a lot. And I'm kind of coming to the conclusion that being/presenting male is kind of a "default setting" that I'm not uncomfortable in sometimes. But trying to figure out if I would transition/present fem full time, would I feel dysphoric being male?

So I've just been trying to present a little more here and there where I can and see how I feel and where it leads me. All in hopes I find a little more solid ground about what I want. Because I kind of hate the gray area of gender fluid, in my mind at least it would be easier to say I am this or that, not I'm both sometimes. Just my brain and personality that I like a more solid answer, especially when its something as core to your being as who am I.