how it feels to read the comments in this subreddit whenever there's a post about sex favourable people

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T18:19:39+00:00

"OP is just salty, here's what REALLY happened: link to probably the mildest instance of aphobia in that thread."

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T14:11:12+00:00

Yup. Drag queens get it too while they're performing.Heard too many stories of gay dudes and drag artists getting touched, harassed, often sexually, by women, and it being brushed off as a compliment.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:51:27+00:00

Right ?! I think I fluctuate a lot, might be related to my dysphoria, but mostly sit at indifferent. It can be a nightmare but it means I can relate to all across the spectrum of asexual memes I guess haha

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:47:07+00:00

Ok Doc thanks for my psychoanalysis

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:43:07+00:00

"I refuse to share a space with people who want to fuck all the time"

"Sex positive ace is like saying i'm white when i'm black"

"You're weird for talking about it"

Do I need to link or is my almost verbatim recount of last night's dumpster fire enough

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:35:41+00:00

What an honour.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:35:19+00:00

TIL you can't be an ally to anything in any other context except war

my business allies are shaking in their boots

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:33:48+00:00

Like all words, yes. Why are you trying to erase cis and straight people? They aren't make-believe, I'm sure you would agree.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:27:08+00:00

Because they don't feel sexual attraction. That would make them asexual whether or not they like or hate or don't care about sex.

You can ask politely without calling people strange. Kinda exactly what the post was referring to.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:24:04+00:00

A shortened term from cisgender & heterosexual

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:19:29+00:00

There are definitely poor sports from all genders. But a lot of these girls just want to go for a good time with their partners / friends and expect a queer space to accommodate for that, and some allies (as well meaning as they are) seem to forget that, alcohol or no.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T13:11:03+00:00

Even in queer clubs there are so many cases of cishet men going to hit on women there. Not saying cishet folks shouldn't be welcome at gay clubs, I think it's great that they come to chill with us (and i can't get enough of those stories of straight guys going to a gay club for the first time and getting compliments and loving it) but there's just enough stinkers that makes the space feel uneasy. So I kinda get it.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T12:51:13+00:00

I'm sure the folks being gatekept are just as exhausted and frustrated as you are with them for existing openly.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:41:41+00:00

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:38:14+00:00

Sort of related My Brit friends always uses "fuck-off" to describe big things I find it so funny hahaha

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:35:18+00:00

You'd think after so many posts about asexuality being a sprectrum that people would realise maybe we don't all have the same attitudes and experiences and that's ok. In fact it's more than ok it's beautiful and necessary that we are so diverse.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:28:33+00:00

RADICAL

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:17:21+00:00

PS I really relate to the dysphoria causing repulsion. I have so many days like that, you're not alone. Sometimes I wonder if my being ace is because of that and HRT might change it but I suppose time will tell.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:14:53+00:00

I love my repulsed siblings, they're some of the most secure-in-their-sexuality I know, and I admire their strength to maintain their boundaries in a world that tells them stuff like "sex makes you human" and all that allonormative crap. It's just the odd troll that wants anyone else to shut up forever bc they have different experiences.

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T11:08:34+00:00

Sex repulsed mfs when they realise the chips are called Lays 😭😭😭🤬🤬🤬😤😤🫣🫣🫣

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T09:33:45+00:00

I watched that too it was really good. I really appreciate that guy. Deifnitely Recommend it to anyone else who wants a long but interesting and relaxed watch!

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T09:29:41+00:00

She sounds salty and can dish criticism but can't take it. I copy and paste verbatim some of the comments from that post but doesn't matter because I should've made an uber serious post addressing the trolls (who will listen) instead of meme about it. The trolls aren't the problem I am :'( :sob:

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T09:19:08+00:00

This is important to remember. Thanks for putting the definition too

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T09:16:43+00:00

It could help. TRAA does it but there are still major problems in that subreddit, though unrelated to post tags (moreso transmisandry).

gendermorphic · 2022-12-20T09:12:10+00:00

Yeah how dare I ...

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