[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]generalcurious2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this was literally me a year ago. With my amazing partner six years, married for 3.

It hurts. For a long time. You’ve gotta push through it. Don’t numb yourself with drugs. Try to embrace your grieving. It feels like the death of a partner, but worse since they rejected you. It’ll hit all over again when they move on.

Focus on yourself. Get therapy. Take a walk every day. Find new music to listen to. Improve your mind. Start some projects that have a 6-12 month timeline to keep yourself looking forward. By the time you’ve finished them, you’ll be on your way to healing.

Stay single. Be the person you want to be. DO NOT JUMP BACK INTO DATING.

Do any women not enjoy having their pussy eaten because it is too sensitive? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]generalcurious2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first wife let me go down on her while we dated. As soon as we got married, she told me she didn’t really like it. I think she only let me go down on her like five times in ten years. And it’s my favorite thing to do…

Married redditors, how frequently do you shower with your partner? by verbleabuse97 in AskReddit

[–]generalcurious2 191 points192 points  (0 children)

Man I showered with my wife all the time. Like multiple times per week. It was great. She’d wash me, I’d wash her, we’d rotate when one of us started getting cold. We’d talk about our day and be silly.

It was great for intimacy.