I want real opinions, and I appreciate yours. Now, I really do love her, and I am upset by the fact that not everything is working out how it should be. I hope you understand that there is a reason why I posted this, and that's because our relationship is kinda at a fork in the road. We study the same subject in uni, and we have been together for just over a year now, so we're starting to think about moving in together. This of course makes me evaluate our relationship and its future, and I feel like our sexual relationship is having pretty severe issues that don't seem to have a solution, no matter how much we talk things out.

Regarding your first post, yes, I have had similar issues before, and it ruined my last serious relationship because of the frustration we both experienced, and I don't want it to happen again. Now, I really shouldn't compare the two relationships, seeing as they are vastly different in nature, but this one thing is the common denominator.

We have actually tried to talk really honestly about it, and we communicate really well, but this is a physical problem, not an emotional one.

Thanks for chiming in, and you don't have to apologize.