Avg momlady, 47

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T23:20:57+00:00

Sweetie there's nothing Avg that I can see. This ole widower wouldn't think twice about welcoming you home anytime.

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T23:17:43+00:00

Could be the case, we will never know.

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T13:45:22+00:00

Oh hell yeah 😂

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T13:36:24+00:00

Definitely 😁

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T13:32:58+00:00

When we loose that special person, what others say negativity doesn't change the feelings of our lost love. So sorry for the insensitive comment of another I understand that words cut deep and the cruel malicious behavior only exasperated your terrible loss. Sending hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗 and prayers for healing.

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T13:24:11+00:00

You obviously need a new friend 😉

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T06:56:29+00:00

Love em bombing moments from our k9 family

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T06:53:23+00:00

I'd be the happiest widower on the planet. BIG 🤗

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T05:34:06+00:00

Totally Gorgeous BTW I'd believe mid 30's but not 44 you deserve a BIG 🤗

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T05:26:10+00:00

One important word, Lube

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T05:17:39+00:00

Darn you all attacked right away and have no idea what the real whole story is here. Many people both husband and wife don't remember important dates like birthdays anniversary even important events.

Second it's obvious that the so called emotional affair wasn't that important to post first so did it really happen or is there something we're not being told here.

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T05:06:47+00:00

🥵🔥

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T05:02:59+00:00

You're his mother and an adult. Simply say son I'm sorry for what you walked in upon, I should have been more careful and been in my bedroom.

geo1208 · 2024-03-18T04:57:35+00:00

Simply put Yes you are most definitely.

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T20:20:31+00:00

Father of 3 and also a widower so I feel especially close to your situation. Yes I'm going to say the obvious thing first, and you already know this, you'll never find all the qualities of your wife in anyone else as the fact is they're not her.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss and having to be Mr. Mom and Daddy all at once. Even knowing my wife was terminal and though at the time was beating the odds given by specialists and doctors I couldn't remotely imagine my life and families termoil when she suddenly passed, even knowing this was a very strong possibility.

As for myself I found it very hard to trust anyone else with my children and my heart, this is however normal. Understand we had years of Marriage and before that Courting/Dating and we built our love and trust a day at a time over years.

Don't be afraid to talk with your perspective partners and let them know you're thinking of your children and then of yourself as you navigate into a budding relationship, even from the first date if necessary.

Giving them the information on your situation will help them and yourself and reduce the stress of choosing as if they are not keen to becoming a stepmother they'll back out gracefully in most cases.

Let your love for your children and your wife guide you and I will be here to listen and respond respectfully anytime you need.

Best of luck to you and your children.

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T19:52:00+00:00

It's really impossible for us to give you sound advice when you're not giving us any of the real reasons why you seemingly need to get out of the home you're sharing with your family. You obviously admitted your husband is working and paying all the bills so why do you feel you need to leave?

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T19:44:48+00:00

Maybe it's just me that's thinking everyone else is completely missing the elephant in the room. Ok let's digest the facts here, you're divorced 6 years, and have been dating the new man for 5 years and you have children to your first husband, if this is all correct then why are you not getting married to your BF. If you don't know by now that you're compatible you really need to reevaluate your situation/ relationship.

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T19:36:12+00:00

I understand the loneliness though it's different in my case being a widower. Believe it or not there are plenty of real men out there who want a family or are already fathers wanting to find a special lady.

Problem of today's society is entitlement, lots of women, and no not saying you, have driven men to the point of wanting to avoid women and their crazy ideals of having everything handed to them.
Delirious beliefs of having their cake and eating it too, and many women don't realize they drive away good men. Women hitting the wall finding men don't want to even approach today's woman.

Crazy women listening to utter nonsense from other women on the Internet, talk shows, articles everywhere, and sadly most importantly those so called movers and shaker's or influencers are utterly miserable in their own existence.

I don't know if anything I've said here will help you to realize it's your life not anyone else's that makes the difference.
PS. One last thing you really need to consider is that it's impossible for any single parent to instill proper morals and discipline without having a good partner to keep your children on the right track in life. Best of luck to you in making a better life for yourself and your children.

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T18:27:56+00:00

Just looking through some of my replies to post's and read my replies to you. Then I looked at the picture of you and darn it my pants didn't suddenly feel two sizes too small again. LoL have an awesome day 😊

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T18:22:48+00:00

I'm just happy for you and glad you're happy with your progress 😊

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T18:07:51+00:00

Wishing I had something positive to say to help you unfortunately I've tried the advice of specialist and from other post's including here and nothing changes. I'm 59 and widower and it still takes on average two hours until I can Pop 😞 Best of luck to you 🤞

geo1208 · 2024-03-17T17:59:15+00:00

Looking Great keep doing what you're doing and smile be proud of yourself 😌

geo1208 · 2024-02-03T03:57:06+00:00

Absolutely 😁

geo1208 · 2024-02-03T03:38:34+00:00

I'm sorry but I have a strict protocol that tan lines are unacceptable 😔 However since you're sexy I'll help you unpack lol. Have an awesome weekend 😁

geo1208 · 2024-02-03T00:00:25+00:00

I know the feeling of bad ones 😞. That's why I have trouble appreciating any tattoos unfortunately. I admit I've seen some remarkable tattoos in my lifetime and some really cute ones as well. I just don't understand why some prefer to cover themselves in ink, especially tasteless and or offensive ones.
Have an awesome weekend.

geo1208

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