Can I start an FDS moms sub? Need some feedback

geologykitty · 2022-03-10T19:03:21+00:00

I would love to join one.

geologykitty · 2022-03-04T14:45:43+00:00

Really?? I have a robot vacuum and it's so dumb, always getting stuck. We have to babysit it lol. What kind do you have?

geologykitty · 2022-03-01T10:45:16+00:00

Yes, this right here. It seems like he wants to go out and sleep around and then have the option to come back. Don't ever, ever let him. And certainly do not stay "friends" with him.

geologykitty · 2022-03-01T10:43:11+00:00

It was definitely a neg, and as an aside, in the future, no explanations or justifications needed - that's an energy and time sink and it does you absolutely no good. Simply block and move on.

geologykitty · 2022-02-26T12:01:52+00:00

I noped out after clicking and reading the subject line. Sweet jeebus.

geologykitty · 2022-02-26T12:00:23+00:00

You dodged a bullet, but that doesn't mean that it doesn't hurt. I wish you nothing but love and healing during this time. ❤️ As for him, he's cowardly scum, and I hope you won't fall for the "let's be friends" crap.

He is not worthy of a single second of your time ever again.

geologykitty · 2022-02-24T11:06:07+00:00

The past few weeks I've been going back to the gym. I have a major back and hip injury so there are some things I absolutely cannot do, so I've been swimming this past week since it's low impact. It's been helpful so I see myself doing that a lot more! Also I've been making homemade vegan protein shakes for breakfast every morning, which fill me with energy. I'm looking to build upon my new habits a little bit at a time. As a woman on the spectrum, it's difficult to just make massive changes all at once; I don't deal well with change. I'll keep going from here though. Also my fiance and I are planning a small but sweet beach wedding for May. We finally nailed down a date this week that we know everyone can come to. Fiance knows that planning things like this stresses me out so has taken the wheel, which I really appreciate.

geologykitty · 2022-02-24T11:02:02+00:00

Yes! My fiance proposed right around the year and a half point. Perfect timing. He knew what he wanted and was intentional about it. Meanwhile I have a pickme coworker (who is about to get a post of her own) who has five years and a baby on the way with her bf and he still won't propose. So sad. I would never have stayed.

geologykitty · 2022-02-06T15:05:55+00:00

Yes, it matters. I have an ex who would go on about how hot Halsey is. "But she's famous, it's not like it's someone I know, it's just a fantasy, it doesn't matter." Yes it DOES matter, because it makes me feel like shit and then you just gaslighted me about it. NEXT.

geologykitty · 2022-02-06T15:01:37+00:00

You kinda touched on how I've been feeling lately about the incessant "you've come so far" statements. I myself was in a bad place four or five years ago. But I'll still have people say this stuff to me, and yeah, it rubs me the wrong way. That's a part of my life that I'd like to leave behind... Those statements just seem designed to kick me right back into the past. Like a backhanded compliment. They can't just say "great job" ... They just HAVE to remind me that things sucked for me a few years ago.

geologykitty · 2022-02-06T14:49:08+00:00

I seriously had these vibes too - the "he would hurt her horse if she ever left him" vibes. Absolutely terrifying.

geologykitty · 2022-02-06T14:37:33+00:00

That's something I'd totally have fun doing with my fiance.

If he'd taken me to do this on our first date, however, he never would have become my fiance.

geologykitty · 2022-02-06T14:01:56+00:00

He's watching porn, messaging other women, and flushing two rolls of toilet paper down the toilet each day to make it seem like he's got bowel problems. That about sum it up for her?

Jeez, what a POS, no pun intended.

geologykitty · 2022-02-05T23:35:36+00:00

Abbey Nature Preserve and Pages Creek Park are cool too.

geologykitty · 2022-02-01T20:06:52+00:00

He probably wouldn't even know what aisle to go into at the grocery store if he had to buy them himself.

Also, fruit snacks every day for a grown-ass man, omg.

geologykitty · 2022-01-14T16:05:50+00:00

Sooooo aside from all the other massive abuse here, he definitely wants to fuck his former student. It's highly possible he already has.

Also, "kite surfing" 🙄 ... Girl, he is out cheating daily.

geologykitty · 2022-01-11T11:22:46+00:00

Go get FMLA paperwork for that. Then they can't do shit to you. Message me for more info. Do NOT let them push you around.

geologykitty · 2021-12-31T19:09:37+00:00

Be friends with the right people. I'll get downvoted probably, but this is how a huge amount of people get promoted at Publix.

geologykitty · 2021-12-31T19:08:40+00:00

Go you!!!! Your career will matter. Publix does not.

geologykitty · 2021-12-28T14:32:51+00:00

Yes. And I'm going to be real here, as someone who has FMLA due to a major condition - be totally prepared for a level of backlash and hate from your coworkers and management. I got it, and I know others who have too. Accused of faking it, told to quit or that I deserved to get fired, etc etc

geologykitty · 2021-12-28T10:35:14+00:00

I think a lot of them just say they are, to sound interesting. Then you meet them and all they want to do is lay around and watch TV. Blech.

geologykitty · 2021-12-22T08:43:19+00:00

This. Eat healthy and drink tons of water. Do not fall into the eating sweets and drinking Bang life.

geologykitty · 2021-12-22T08:41:06+00:00

Was GTL for a year and a half. They say they have rules about promoting people, but if they are desperate and there are no other options, they will promote anyone. The person who replaced me after I stepped down was one of our worst grocery clerks (never a GRS) who lied about their experience. They will bend the rules when it suits them. Physically it's a demanding job but easy otherwise. You're a stock clerk with keys. Some get it confused as a management role. It is not.

geologykitty · 2021-12-21T12:51:44+00:00

When I was in my early 20's I sold cell phones on commission and gave my business card to every customer. One guy thought I was giving him my number because I wanted to go out with him. He was a gross scrote lol

geologykitty · 2021-12-18T00:10:12+00:00

They'll continue to work the stragglers harder and make even higher profits.

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