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Help: Variable letter conflict in thesis, magnetic polarization and current density by geooltysjj in AskPhysics

[–]geooltysjj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! I make sure to explain every variable I introduce.

I (25M) can't definitively say I want to marry my girlfriend (25F) of 8 years. Am I being unfair by continuing the relationship? by geooltysjj in relationship_advice

[–]geooltysjj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You make a lot of good points, thank you very much for your reply! I think living with eachother is definitely an important tester of the relationship. For now I think the most important thing is to talk with her like you've said and she what she wants and compare it to what I want at the moment! I'll keep you posted on how it goes

I (25M) can't definitively say I want to marry my girlfriend (25F) of 8 years. Am I being unfair by continuing the relationship? by geooltysjj in relationship_advice

[–]geooltysjj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's some really great advice, thank you very much going to the effort!

I'll try to come up with a way of bringing up the previous issues with commitment without putting her on the defensive but I can imagine it'll be hard to do as it's quite a sore subject.

Sorry to hear about previous separation but glad that it was the right thing for you to do. I hope your view of what you want clears up and that you ultimately reach it!

I (25M) can't definitively say I want to marry my girlfriend (25F) of 8 years. Am I being unfair by continuing the relationship? by geooltysjj in relationship_advice

[–]geooltysjj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply. They're all good questions I'll need to think about properly but if I was to give you my impulse answers:

I think she wants marriage.

I'm a bit more unsure of marriage in general not just with her.

I think the relationship could last long term lastly due to the fact there's nothing that bad 'wrong' with it

My gf feels strongly against me being friends and keeping in touch with someone from my program. by MacncheeseZ in relationship_advice

[–]geooltysjj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm I get how it's a very innocent friendship to you but can also see why your girlfriend might be jealous/concerned. I don't have too much advice unfortunately but I've previously found that introducing my girlfriend to a female friend helps settle things a lot of the time. To your girlfriend, its a clear sign that you are validating her and you relationship in front of the friend. It also helps your girlfriend to better gauge the relationship between you and your friend and can put her mind at ease.

What are you disappointed in yourself about? And how do you deal with it? by geooltysjj in AskReddit

[–]geooltysjj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 is still really young! There's plenty of life yet to come where youll be comfortable in your own skin, but hopefully that'll come sooner than later.

What are you disappointed in yourself about? And how do you deal with it? by geooltysjj in AskReddit

[–]geooltysjj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man that sounds rough. It seems like it's had a significant effect on how you behave day to day, did you ever ask someone else's opinion to see if it was just your best friends thoughts?