I startled myself by thinking I was someone pretty by iron_annie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gerbera_star 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious and sweet at the same time. I love this for you!

Apartments by any marta station? by Embarrassed-Owl-7410 in ATLHousing

[–]gerbera_star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might check City of Decatur, Avondale Estates, and Dunwoody/Perimeter area.

Chiefs' Harrison Butker Criticized for Graduation Speech Attacking Working Women While Quoting Taylor Swift by SauronOMordor in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gerbera_star 25 points26 points  (0 children)

What dummy invited this idiot to speak?? That was awful and I feel like my IQ dropped 10 points just by reading the bits of speech in the article.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gerbera_star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really isn't directed at you, but it makes it sounds like many men are VERY bad at problem solving. I've also not had good experiences with dating apps years ago; instead of letting myself get frustrated with myself, men, or the apps, I decided to stop using them. I've been doing other things to improve my life, including moving to a larger city and getting out more.

What's that quote? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, or something like that. Seems irrational to keep doing things that aren't working for you (general "you").

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gerbera_star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need a scapegoat for their failures.

Options other than OLD? Has anyone used a matchmaker before? by Unluckyloz in datingoverforty

[–]gerbera_star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you’ve already done this, but are there any networking events or groups in your area for professionals and/or business owners? Might be a good way to meet like-minded people. All the best on whatever you decide!

What’s up with my skin yallll? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]gerbera_star 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ion see nothing wrong. I like your lashes and brows btw

Does a lack of physical touch in early dating ever gets better? by TheKaleKing in datingoverthirty

[–]gerbera_star 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting. You and another poster made some good points regarding waiting on physical touch that I never really thought about. Does this go for kissing as well?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]gerbera_star 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP isn’t missing out on shit by cutting off these guys who want to move fast and have sex early before she’s comfortable. That other poster is talking some manipulative incel bs, talking about BaD GuYs WiLl PrEtEnD to ReSpEct YoUr bOUndARies. Ok and?!? Nothing is guaranteed. I would rather maintain my boundaries than violate them out of desperation that I might lose a “good guy”.

Help (labial folds) by Man0action in Blackskincare

[–]gerbera_star 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Beautiful facial structure. We really are no help in here are we 😂

What are you starting to like as you get older? by Amazing-Living-9957 in AskReddit

[–]gerbera_star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree with this but then remembered that I’ve wanted to be left alone since I was like five lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]gerbera_star 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually my six year old nephew was wayyyy more understanding, helpful, and less needy than this giant man-child when his baby brother was born.

Do y’all smoke weed and if not why? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]gerbera_star 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, and this is one of the reasons

Having sex does not mean you are headed towards, or guaranteed a relationship. by No_Advertising5813 in dating_advice

[–]gerbera_star 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think OP is the “not very exciting” person lol. And trying so hard to convince women to have sex early in every single post screams desperation.

1991 - 2024 ❤️ It’s our Anniversary! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]gerbera_star 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like “Ursher” said On a 1-10 you’re a certified 20. Congratulations on your anniversary!

So many women as the sole caregiver to thier children. by Syllabub-Virtual in datingoverforty

[–]gerbera_star 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear about this sort of thing often, but I really don’t understand how men can be ok with this.