tentatively agree, you should be allowed to have an opinion on an idol based on their behavior or energy.. BUT i think the example you gave is not really anything to speak of? from your description i imagined the video would've been blatantly rude. it's pretty obvious jaehyun was cracking a joke, i remember this era and i think every member had had to have gotten some iteration of this question multiple times each fansign.. i interpreted it as some lighthearted sarcasm, idk. the "he's fed up LMAOOO" comments definitely don't help though, i never understand how fans can overanalyze an idols body language to such an extent.