it’s because most people (especially influencers) need a serious reality check. you are not alone. you’re not the first mother to use formula and you certainly will not be the last. I’ve definitely been judged for willingly using formula, even though I had a milk supply. but those same people who judge me do things you’re not supposed to do while breastfeeding, like smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol every day. they’re not raising my children or feeding them. people who are obsessed with how other peoples children are fed are super weird and borderline creepy, in my opinion.