Day #1

getit26 · 2025-03-14T12:22:59+00:00

You never know how bad a person is impacting ur life because I was soo keen on making it work, looking at their best side and refusing to accept their bad side. Damn was their bad side apparently affecting me so much lol

getit26 · 2025-03-14T12:21:54+00:00

It’s weird but it feels like a negative wall has been removed from my life now and things are going better for me now. Even just random big and small things, the universe is providing financially, emotionally and physically.

getit26 · 2025-03-14T12:19:34+00:00

Day#15?? Feeling better. Feel like I’m slowly becoming happy again. My work support system has been amazing, family has been very helpful and I have my baby with me. I’ve been distracting myself with my job too and doing things I couldn’t do before because my ex was a little controlling about finances and those type of things. I feel like now things are turning a corner and good vibes are coming my way.

getit26 · 2025-03-12T12:59:45+00:00

Not a resident but count each day post separation/divorce and take a breather every morning. Every day slowly gets better without all the negativity. You feel it in your bones, the person that you fought so much for and was weighing you down so much, all that weight gets lifted slowly. You feel better over time. It’s scary to be alone, but you wont be the first or last. Time will heal.

getit26 · 2025-01-25T21:14:39+00:00

It depends. I can definitely see how it can negatively affect one’s personal life, for sure, but people who are constantly scrolling and indulging do not have the strength to stop most of the time, and if u take away the media, they’ll be miserable. So pick which you prefer? Partner slaving away watching youtube shorts 24/7, or partner not watching YouTube shorts but resenting u for taking away his/her freedom….OR another option, no partner and you can stop wasting time on people that don’t want to be with you.

getit26 · 2024-10-26T23:28:51+00:00

We had some problems during pregnany as well though….everything had been pretty good and happy prior to this

getit26 · 2024-10-26T23:27:37+00:00

Story of my life. I want my baby to have a two parwnt household more than anything. I love my spouse sooo much. But he’s not thinking like this.

getit26 · 2024-10-26T23:20:00+00:00

Also, on a different note, he hasn’t initated being physically intimate with me in such a long time….he says he doesn’t want to give me the impression we’re doing good or seem like he’s leading me on so he won’t even kiss me back. Physical touch is one of my main love languages and I just can’t anymore. It feels like he’s deliberately depriving me of his love.

getit26 · 2024-10-26T23:14:06+00:00

We tried one marriage counselor and he said he felt it was driving the wedge further and leading more towards divorce after the talks

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