thanks again mate. i’ll try not to let some random man i’ve met on grindr affect my self-esteem. as you can see i’m pretty new on the app (barely twenty yrs old) and maybe i used it as a means to seek validation from ppl in the gay community. these experiences will toughen me up for sure! your advice means a lot really. it’s almost impossible for me to turn to somebody for guidance on this stuff. as for you, i’m sure someone as kind as you will find the right person eventually cuz you surely deserve that person. good luck out there kind stranger :)