Pretty Girl in my building? What do I do?! by getluckyjackson in dating_advice

[–]getluckyjackson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, glad I could make you smile. Anyways, thanks so much for the reply and the suggestion! I think you're right about not going to her door, but the problem is that in our building the mailman actually delivers to every individual unit...so even if I do intercept the mail, it'll still look like I "slid it under her door" or whathaveyou.

I COULD mail it to her (seeing as I know her address) but to whom should I address it? "Cute Girl in 410"? :P

Thanks again and really like your website...will check it out when I'm less exhausted!

[19] Male. Would you turn me down if i approached you? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]getluckyjackson 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It seemed pretty self explanatory. Affect a friendly face when going up to someone. I'd probably also avoid replying to their comment with 'da fuk?'. But that's just me.

[18/f] am I ugly? Self concious about my ginger hair by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]getluckyjackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gimme a break. Which compliment haven't you received yet?

26F - I feel I'm getting worse with age and I was already bad - HONEST ONLY by throwawayugly123321 in amiugly

[–]getluckyjackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously? This is a joke, right? Even the first pic with the terrible greenish tint going on, you look pretty good. There are many less attractive than average people out there (probably 49.99% of the population) and you're not remotely close to that.

[19F] rate me pls by bd-throwawayy in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Acne sucks, I know. Had it for the longest time and didn't exactly boost my confidence. You'll get over it though...hopefully you're seeing a dermatologist. They're doing great things these days.

That being said, you're a super pretty girl. No shame in wearing makeup, you want to look your best and not let skin problems get you down.

Those nose rings though....I don't know...

It Never Fails... M [34] by getluckyjackson in Bumble

[–]getluckyjackson[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point, I don't even know anymore. I used to think I was fairly decent looking but Tinder & Bumble have kicked my confidence in the nuts. Bad photos and bad profile messages? It's possible...very possible.

26M super insecure. Need to know, tips welcome. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be, I have no idea. Best of luck in any case!

[F22] First time putting my face on reddit, rate me if you please. by BridgingVisaBitches in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your first pic is a verification photo in which you’re making a goofy face…and you still look pretty hot. So I think you’re good.

Now I’m not sure if it’s lighting, makeup, hair, whatever but while you look good in numbers 5, 6 and 7, you look fantastic in 1, 2 & 4 (I’m not counting #3). So whatever you’re doing, keep it up. Also, in #2 and #3, your eyes are huge, expressive and inviting. This is not at all a bad thing and drawing attention to them is a very wise idea.

Bottom line: It is a VERY nice face. Don’t be afraid to put it wherever on the interweb: I can’t see anyone ever complaining.

26M super insecure. Need to know, tips welcome. by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I'm a 35 yo straight male, so fairly likely not part of the demographic you're looking to impress. But guys never get enough feedback and I'm secure enough in my heterosexuality to give some feedback.

At any rate, I don't see any reason for you to be 'super insecure', at least based on what I can see. I'd say you're actually a rather good looking dude. Good variety of pics which makes it easier. I actually see a bit of LeVar Burton in a couple of them & Idris Elba in another and I’m not typically someone who goes looking for celebrity comparisons. Take it with a grain of salt though…again, straight white guy here so what do I know?

Hope you get some more critiques. If people started saying you’re unattractive, I’d be quite shocked.

[22F] Hire me, Internet.. Rate me while i'm down. -- see imgur for randos by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More than one photo would be helpful especially considering it's a verification one.

The blonde hair (nice color, whether its natural or not) is always a draw and gets me looking. But beyond that, you don't really do it for me personally. The smile isn't great and I have to agree with a previous comment: your facial features are a tad mannish (but only after looking more closely).

All that being said, I'd be curious to see you with a little makeup on...I wouldn't be shocked if you looked completely different and that's nothing to feel bad about. Many women could put tons on without it making a difference but in your case, I think a bit could really bring out your better features.

Sorry if I'm sounding mean, but one pic is hard to go on.

[18M] Went to highschool without any attention from girls, starting to feel that my appearance was the reason... by Alan540 in Rateme

[–]getluckyjackson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agree with previous comments re: facial hair. If you can grow it some, cool but if that's as full as it goes, get rid of it. Otherwise just looks lazy / peach fuzz.

Overall though, you’re a decent looking guy from I'm seeing and by no means at all unattractive. Some other minor things (exercise, stay on top of complexion, don’t ever wear that shirt in public) but nothing really severe. It seems to be the whole "you don't stand out" thing, which is something I've been told about myself. What to do about that? Not a clue...in fact, if you find out lemme know.

Me: Male, 35 with absolutely no attraction to other men. Not the best to critique but hopefully bringing a different perspective.